Finally, the moment you’ve been eagerly anticipating has arrived—an evening without the kids, just you and your spouse. While you may not have complete privacy, the kids’ bedtime routine allows for a little intimacy before the youngest comes calling for mom around 10 p.m. So, how can you ensure your wife is receptive to your advances tonight? What can you do to set the mood and make her feel special?
If she’s already lounging around in her oversized nightshirt and comfy underwear, you might have missed your chance. However, if you start your efforts early in the day, by evening she’ll be eager to spend quality time with you. Here’s what you can do:
- Rise Early: Don’t just wake up a few minutes before her; get up 20-30 minutes ahead. This gives you ample time to brew some coffee, wake the kids, and set them up with breakfast and entertainment.
- Pitch In with the Kids: Whether it’s helping little Tommy find his socks or soothing little Emily during a meltdown over clothing choices, being hands-on in the morning will score major points.
- Do a Load of Laundry: Yes, you read that right. Take the initiative and throw a load into the washer to lighten her load.
- Show Affection: A little spontaneous affection can go a long way. A playful pinch or a hug that lingers just a moment longer can help set a flirty tone for the day.
- Check In During the Day: Send a simple text to see how her day is going. A quick “thinking of you” message can mean a lot, especially if she’s feeling overwhelmed.
- Send Flirty Texts: Get creative and send her a cheeky message or a fun meme to keep the playful vibe going throughout the day.
- Be Punctual: If you’ve promised to be home by 6 p.m., make sure you stick to it. Arriving late can throw off her entire evening and test her patience.
- Express Gratitude for Dinner: Regardless of how the meal turns out, be sure to thank her for her efforts. Recognition goes a long way in making her feel appreciated.
- Help with Cleanup: Take the initiative to clean up after dinner. Don’t just leave your plate; make the effort to load the dishwasher and even start it if you can.
- Offer a Relaxing Massage: While watching her favorite show, offer to give her a massage. This not only shows you care but also provides a moment for her to unwind.
By implementing even a few of these suggestions, you can help your wife feel valued and cherished. A spouse who feels appreciated is often more inclined to reciprocate that affection.
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In summary, by taking small, thoughtful actions throughout the day, you can create a warm atmosphere that encourages intimacy and strengthens your bond with your wife.