Dear Alex Carter,
I want to take a moment to express my gratitude to you, the visionary director of “Love, Simon.” Recently, I attended a sneak preview with my two sons—my 13-year-old and my openly gay almost-11-year-old. My younger son, Jake, had seen an advertisement for the movie and insisted, “We have to watch it. Finally, there’s a film about kids like me!”
I was aware of “Love, Simon” making its way into theaters and researched the film extensively to determine if it was appropriate for Jake, given its PG-13 rating. After assessing our discussions and Jake’s self-identification, I felt confident he would handle it well. The most surprising aspect of my findings was discovering that Jennifer Garner and Josh Duhamel were old enough to have teenage children. But there I was, sitting next to my newly minted teenager.
The theater was packed with a diverse audience, including teens and older LGBTQ couples. The reactions throughout the film were lively—audible gasps, laughs, and heartfelt moments filled the air. “Love, Simon” is more than just a film with a gay teenager at its core; it conveys a powerful message that resonates with audiences: embracing one’s identity is more crucial than ever, particularly in a world where representation is paramount. This film is the quintessential high school romantic comedy reimagined for the 21st century.
It’s hardly surprising that you brought this narrative to life. Years ago, during my college days, I followed a different group of high schoolers on “Dawson’s Creek.” You were behind the groundbreaking moment when two male characters shared their first kiss. I understood its significance for my gay friends then, just as I comprehend its impact on my son today.
I recognize that my family exists in a supportive bubble. Jake has been expressive about his identity since childhood—he dressed as a princess for Halloween at six and participated in his first Pride Parade at seven. In fourth grade, he honored Audra McDonald for Black History Month, and in fifth, he proudly displayed a rainbow flag for a class project. My husband often remarks, “Stereotypes sometimes exist for a reason,” and our theater-loving son has developed a fondness for icons like Liza Minnelli and Barbra Streisand through his search for musical inspiration. His anthem? “Born This Way.” Naturally, Jake delighted in this film, as representation matters.
Yet, beyond our supportive community, there are children in middle America who relate to Jake but feel as frightened as Simon. This film serves as a beacon for them. I have no doubt that some young boy will accompany the girl he calls his girlfriend to see “Love, Simon” simply because she wants to see Nick Robinson on screen. I hope he recognizes a part of himself in Simon and finds the courage to live authentically.
“Love, Simon” is also vital for straight kids—those who might not fully grasp the struggles their friends face while discovering their identities. The film emphasizes the importance of friendship and the damaging effects of bullying. On our drive home, we discussed one of Simon’s key lines: “I’m supposed to be the one that decides when and how and who knows, and how I get to say it, that’s supposed to be my thing!”
Thank you, Alex, for creating a film that resonates with all children today. You have provided families with the opportunity to engage in essential discussions about bullying, friendship, honesty, and living authentically. Moreover, you’ve given young LGBTQ individuals a powerful affirmation: “I’m just like you.”
Summary
“Love, Simon” is a groundbreaking film that resonates with both LGBTQ youth and their straight peers. It fosters important discussions around identity, friendship, and the challenges of growing up. Directed by Alex Carter, the movie is a celebration of authenticity and acceptance. For more information on home insemination, you can visit resources like Wikipedia and Cryobaby.