I must admit, I’m not a fan of dogs. The smell, the mess, and the slobber all make me uneasy. Just the thought of petting a dog gives me pause. Even if you tell me that a dog’s mouth is cleaner than a human’s, I can’t shake the image of a dog licking its behind right before it wants to lick my face. I don’t find them adorable when they wag their tails or make sad puppy eyes. I simply can’t do it.
Now, my wife has always been a dog enthusiast. During our first few years of marriage, she frequently asked for a dog. I would list my reasons for not wanting one, and eventually, she stopped asking. But then our children arrived, and two out of the three began expressing a strong desire for a furry friend. For years, our conversations went something like this:
“Dad, can we get a dog?”
“No.”
Multiply that by a thousand, and you’ll understand how my life has been.
I know there are dog lovers out there who might be baffled or even appalled by my feelings. What I’ve expressed might seem like sacrilege to some. But this isn’t for the dog enthusiasts; it’s for those of us who feel overwhelmed by the idea of adding a dog to the mix. I completely understand your struggle to maintain your stance against those energetic little fur balls. I wish I could tell you that I stood firm in my convictions, but unfortunately, that’s not the case.
The change came when my ten-year-old son, Alex, developed a fear of dogs. As someone who wasn’t fond of dogs, I thought this might be an easy way out, but it turned into a significant concern for me. I felt immense sympathy for him. We tried various approaches, from watching dog movies and reading books about them to visiting shelters. But nothing seemed to help; in fact, it mostly caused him distress.
The trip to the shelter was particularly hard on him. I can’t pinpoint where his fear originated, but it was evident. He became so anxious that he refused to join family walks or visit friends who owned dogs. One day during soccer practice, a dog ran onto the field, and Alex hid behind some bushes, crying. Once the chaos settled and we calmed him down, I saw the embarrassment wash over him. His teammates had witnessed his deepest fear, and I couldn’t bear to see that sad, tear-streaked face again.
After this incident, we consulted a therapist friend who advised, “Get a dog. It’ll help.” Suddenly, both Alex and I were faced with something we dreaded. Initially, he wasn’t too keen on the idea, but when we offered him the chance to name the rescue dog we adopted from the Humane Society—a mixed breed part-dachshund—he became more enthusiastic.
He considered various names, from Sparky to Fart Squirrel, but eventually settled on Pikachu. As someone who wasn’t an admirer of dogs or Pokémon, this was a strange twist in my parenting journey. Remarkably, within just a few days, Alex warmed up to Pikachu and is now completely smitten. He talks about the dog constantly, draws pictures of him, and everything revolves around this newfound furry companion.
As for me, I’ll admit that Pikachu has taken a liking to me. He jumps into my lap and gives me those soulful eyes, making it hard to resist giving him attention. While I still have mixed feelings about his habit of rolling onto his back for tummy rubs, I can’t deny that having Pikachu around has made our home feel cozier. It’s as if this dog filled a void I hadn’t noticed before. What started as a solution to my son’s fear turned into welcoming another member into our family.
I can’t believe I just wrote that.
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In summary, my initial resistance to getting a dog shifted dramatically when my son’s dog phobia became a pressing concern. The introduction of Pikachu, a rescue dog, not only helped my son overcome his fear but also enriched our family life in unexpected ways.