I have a profound love for my country. The breathtaking variety of its landscapes and the rich tapestry of its people fill me with pride. I cherish the principles of a government that is representative, of the people, by the people, and for the people. The meticulous balance of powers established by our government and the freedoms protected by our Constitution resonate deeply with me.
However, I grapple with mixed emotions regarding my country’s origins, as any person with a moral compass might. I respect the determination of our founding figures while also denouncing their colonial actions. I admire the political breakthroughs they achieved, yet I cannot overlook their ties to white supremacy. As actor Marcus Lee once articulated in a discussion about reconciling historical figures who embody both brilliance and moral failings, “He can have created this remarkable document that we all believe in, and still be a terrible person. Both can be true.”
America mirrors the best and worst aspects of humanity. It has never claimed to be perfect, yet it continuously strives to improve, and that aspiration is why I hold it dear.
The America I treasure embraces the weary, the impoverished, and the masses yearning for freedom. It is a nation built by immigrants and their descendants, all seeking brighter futures and forging new lives. It works diligently to embody its stated ideals of “liberty and justice for all” and “out of many, one.” This America takes two steps forward for every step it stumbles backward. Though not flawless, it is earnest in its efforts, and this is the spirit I have endeavored to pass on to my children.
Yet, something has shifted. The ground beneath us feels unstable. I witness the very foundation of our system being challenged like never before. I see the promise of “liberty and justice for all” being gradually undermined for those who have spent their lives within our borders, often by those who would struggle to pass a basic citizenship test. I hear voices from marginalized communities articulating that they have never truly experienced our nation’s guarantees of “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.” Sadly, these truths are often met with ridicule from those in power who could enact change.
I observe white supremacists gaining confidence, and I see a surge in greed and inequality. Leaders seem intent on reversing progress, longing for a vague past when America was supposedly “great”—though they never clarify when that was. I see a focus on tax benefits overshadowing critical issues like healthcare for millions. An administration is fostering isolation from our allies and undermining our global partnerships. Partisan divides threaten to dismantle our institutions and our shared humanity.
Selfishness and bigotry have always existed, of course. But I don’t remember a time when I felt uncertain about the survival of the America I cherish. I don’t recall feeling ashamed of my nationality as I do today.
How am I to instill in my children a genuine respect for the presidency when it’s currently characterized by rampant nationalism, unsuitable appointments, and a lack of dignity? How can I teach them to feel grateful and proud to be American when everything our nation represents seems to be unraveling before us?
The United States was established on the belief that a better form of governance is possible. Our founding documents were intentionally left open to interpretation, as the founders recognized their limitations. The beauty of America lies in its ability to adapt and evolve within a framework designed to protect us from tyranny. It seemed an infallible system, but I am beginning to doubt that certainty.
I am weary of feeling as though I’ve lost the America I once knew and loved. I’m tired of telling my children that this is not how it should be. I want them to experience and appreciate the America that has inspired me throughout my life. I long for the return of that country.
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In summary, my desire is to instill a love for a better America in my children, one that is true to its ideals and inclusive of every citizen, while confronting the hardships of our current reality.