Motherhood is far from a perfect journey, a truth well-known by every mom. Yet, many films and television series tend to focus solely on the bright side or depict the struggles as failures of character. If a mother finds herself overwhelmed, she’s often framed as the one at fault.
This season, ABC’s Black-ish is addressing the complexities of motherhood with raw honesty and groundbreaking narratives. Known for tackling pressing issues in American society, the show presents Rainbow, or Bow, grappling with the realities of motherhood, underscoring that there is no single way to be a good mom.
Postpartum Depression and Family Dynamics
In the second episode of the season, Bow’s struggle with postpartum depression after the arrival of the family’s fifth child is poignantly depicted. Baby DeVonte’s premature birth at the end of the previous season posed significant health risks for both him and Bow. While they both pulled through, Bow’s challenges extend beyond the typical “baby blues.” Her family, accustomed to her being the reliable pillar of strength, finds it difficult to navigate her current emotional state.
In a touching moment, Dre recognizes Bow’s need for help and takes the initiative to bring her to a doctor, demonstrating his desire for her to return to her former self. The episode is infused with humor, courtesy of Dre’s comical missteps, but it ultimately offers a truthful depiction of mental health challenges—an issue often overlooked in the Black community. By addressing it with such candor, Black-ish reaffirms its cultural relevance and success.
Breastfeeding and Familial Pressure
One of the most powerful scenes occurs when Bow confronts Dre’s mother, Ruby, about her disrespectful comments. Ruby manages to soothe DeVonte with a bottle of formula, which deeply unsettles Bow, who is committed to breastfeeding. Ruby’s suggestion that Bow’s antidepressants might affect her milk supply crosses a critical line, highlighting the complexities surrounding breastfeeding in the Black community. Despite its health benefits, breastfeeding rates among Black women lag behind other demographics, often met with familial pressure to resort to formula. This dynamic adds an emotional weight to Bow’s experience, reflecting the struggles many Black mothers face when their choices are scrutinized by loved ones.
Balancing Career and Motherhood
Another relatable episode features Bow’s return to work. A career-driven woman, Bow is eager to dive back into her professional life. However, Dre, having grown accustomed to her presence at home, suggests she might consider being a stay-at-home mom instead. Bow sees this as insensitive and asserts her need to balance both roles. Yet, as she navigates her new reality, she grapples with feelings of displacement—realizing how much she’s missing out on with her baby and sensing that family dynamics have shifted in her absence. When Dre again implies she should leave her job, she firmly responds, “What do you want me to be? A lady of leisure? Sit on the couch and watch talk shows?” Her frustration is palpable as she emphasizes that her career is integral to her identity. This moment resonates with many working mothers who find purpose beyond their maternal roles.
Humor in the Journey
The show also includes a comedic take on Diane’s first period, which strikes a chord with viewers who have navigated that awkward moment. With Bow’s mother joining in, the episode balances humor and sincerity, making it relatable to many women.
While various series explore parenting themes, few manage to capture the essence of motherhood as effectively as Black-ish. The blend of humor and reality brings forth significant issues that deserve attention. We eagerly anticipate what the next episode will bring.
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In summary, Black-ish successfully portrays the multifaceted nature of motherhood, shedding light on mental health and societal pressures while maintaining a comedic flair that resonates with viewers.