In our household, few things are deemed off-limits. We don’t restrict R-rated films or books with crude humor, and we have no set screen time limits or food prohibitions. Even the occasional curse word from my kids isn’t a big deal—provided it’s not used maliciously and fits the context. However, there is one notable exception: Jake Paul and Logan Paul, whom I affectionately refer to as the “Toxic Twins.”
If you don’t have tweens or teens, you might be blissfully unaware of who these brothers are. If you’re still unfamiliar with Logan Paul, especially after his shocking YouTube incident where he filmed an actual suicide victim, consider yourself fortunate.
For those in the know, these siblings gained notoriety through attention-seeking antics on Vine and have since transitioned to YouTube fame. Jake Paul even had a stint on Disney Channel’s Bizaardvark, where his self-centered humor frustrated many parents.
Long before Logan’s most heinous act, there were numerous reasons to disapprove of their behavior. Their arrogance drips with a sense of white privilege and entitlement. While they may be savvy in exploiting new media, their so-called “talents” have little positive impact on society. They revel in crafting a career built on mockery and narcissism. Jake once boasted about his influence, claiming, “Even Disney knows that I have the power.”
Jake Paul’s disregard for his community is evident as he proudly declared, “the neighbors hate me.” When told that locals complained about the circus-like atmosphere he created, he dismissively replied, “But people like going to circuses, right?” The answer is a resounding NO.
After enduring what felt like an eternity listening to my sons blaring Jake Paul’s obnoxious anthem, “Everyday Bro,” which is among the most disliked videos on YouTube, I reached my breaking point. The underlying message their personas promote—that being loud, self-absorbed, and rude equates to fame and fortune—was unacceptable. This is the last thing my children need to internalize in our already challenging, patriarchal society.
Several months ago, I made the firm decision to ban Jake and Logan Paul from our home. This was non-negotiable. I know my kids might still chant their ridiculous phrases at school or watch their videos at friends’ houses, but my husband and I still hold some sway over their choices. Given our generally relaxed stance on various issues, I hope they understand this prohibition carries significant weight. It isn’t just another arbitrary rule; it’s a clear message that we will not tolerate hateful or toxic behavior.
This is not welcome here.
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In summary, my decision to ban the Paul brothers from our home stems from their toxic influence and the negative messages they promote. I want my children to grow up with values that reject arrogance and entitlement.