As I approach my 50s, I’m preparing to share the journey of menstruation with my tween daughter. While it might be easy to view this transition as merely passing along the essentials—think tampons and pads—I want to impart a broader, more positive perspective on her monthly cycle.
I recognize that my optimistic viewpoint on periods may be unconventional. Even though discussions around menstruation have become more open, there still exists a prevailing negative narrative. Historically, society has perpetuated the idea that menstruation is something to be ashamed of. Men, in particular, have often viewed women as less capable during these times, perpetuating harmful stereotypes about emotional instability. It’s time for a shift in this mindset.
From the moment she could speak, I’ve emphasized the extraordinary capabilities of her body. Here are four empowering aspects of menstruation that I plan to discuss with her as she grows:
1. Female Connection
Menstruation is a shared experience that unites women across generations. I remember bonding with my college roommates over our cycles, sharing laughter and support. In workplaces, it’s common for women to reach out to one another for supplies, fostering a sense of camaraderie. Conversations about periods can bridge gaps between women of all ages and backgrounds, creating a bond that transcends differences.
2. A Strategic Escape Route
Life can be overwhelming, and sometimes you need a little help to dodge certain situations. I learned early on that mentioning my period could grant me a free pass from unwanted activities, like swimming class in high school. Whether it’s leaving a gathering early or avoiding an uncomfortable date, invoking “female issues” is often enough to elicit sympathy and understanding.
3. A Reminder of Femininity
Though it may sound odd, menstruation serves as a constant reminder of our sexuality. There’s a certain allure in navigating daily life while experiencing something so primal and visceral. It’s a part of being a woman, and for those who choose to embrace intimacy during this time, it can be a unique and bonding experience with a partner.
4. A Glimpse of Our Potential
The biological process of menstruation signifies the potential for life. Each month, as the body prepares for the possibility of pregnancy, it’s a reminder of our incredible power. While many of us may not be seeking pregnancy, it’s awe-inspiring to recognize that we hold the ability to create life.
As my daughter encounters various messages about menstruation, I want to ensure she understands the beauty and strength inherent in this natural process. Historically viewed as a curse, menstruation should not diminish one’s self-worth. I intend to discuss both the challenges and the positive aspects of her cycle, fostering a healthy relationship with her body. Ultimately, I hope she sees her period as a natural aspect of being female, rather than a burden.
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In summary, I aim to cultivate a positive narrative around menstruation for my daughter, empowering her to embrace this natural process with pride and understanding.