I often find myself caught up in the whirlwind of our chaotic lives, where time seems to slip away faster than I can grasp it. In those moments, I realize that I sometimes forget to truly acknowledge you.
When I take a moment to pause and reflect, I can see the marks of life etched upon you—how you’ve become older, stronger, and wiser through our shared journey. You remain the same person I fell in love with, yet you have evolved so much as we’ve navigated life together.
I take immense pride in who you are and who you’ve become. I’ve witnessed you at your highest peaks and your lowest valleys, just as you’ve seen me at both extremes. We have weathered storms together and have continued to love one another; it’s this bond that solidifies our place in each other’s lives.
At times, I hold unrealistic expectations of you, expecting you to fulfill my happiness or to make me feel perfect. I know that’s not your role, yet when I’m struggling with my own insecurities, I sometimes misplace my anger onto you. I lash out in moments of anxiety or sadness, often unfairly directing my frustration at you, even when you say the wrong thing. The truth is, my battles are with myself, not with you.
I apologize for the times I’ve given you my worst instead of my best during the daily chaos of life. It’s something I wish I could change.
Please know this today and every day: you are my favorite person. You are the one I want by my side through the toughest of times. If I have to wake up with puffy eyes from crying, I want it to be with you. If I face struggles or failures, there’s no one I’d rather have by my side than you.
You are my favorite companion for adventure. Whether we’re climbing mountains, boarding an airplane, or navigating the unknown of parenthood, I can’t imagine anyone else I’d rather have by my side (except for space travel or bungee jumping—no thanks!).
You are my favorite person to celebrate with. When joy comes our way, I wouldn’t want to share a bottle of champagne with anyone but you, even amidst the mess of dishes and laundry that surrounds us.
You are my favorite person to laugh with. There’s nothing like watching a silly movie together and poking fun at the ridiculousness of it all. I treasure those moments of humor we share.
You are my favorite person to cry with. In those moments of vulnerability, I can be my true self, snot and tears and all, without fear of judgment. You embrace my rawness, and that means everything to me.
You are my favorite partner in parenting. As we navigate the challenges of raising our children, I see how hard you work to be a great dad. We may feel overwhelmed, unsure, and at times like we’re failing, but your love and dedication shine through. You are doing an incredible job; I’m proud of you every day.
You are my best surprise. I knew I loved you when we married, but I never could have anticipated the man you would become or the father you’d be. I didn’t know how you would handle life’s struggles or how tenderly you’d care for our children. I didn’t know, but now, I’m endlessly grateful that I chose you.
I understand that you sometimes question your worth, but let me assure you—you are doing exceptionally well, far beyond my expectations. You have been my greatest and most cherished surprise.
With all my love,
Your devoted wife.