In today’s consumer-driven holiday season, the phrase “experiences over things” is often repeated. In our cluttered homes, many parents strive to shift focus away from material possessions. Yet, as the holiday season approaches, the allure of material gifts grows stronger—especially for children.
Statistics reveal a troubling trend: only 3 percent of the world’s children reside in the United States, yet they account for a staggering 40 percent of the global toy market. A survey from the UK indicates that children often engage with merely 5 percent of their toys, likely overwhelmed by excess. In my informal observations—conducted in the comfort of my kitchen—I found that 75 percent of kids can’t recall last year’s presents without prompting, and only half can identify more than one gift.
Despite the appeal of gifting experiences, translating that idea into action can be a challenge. Children frequently express strong desires for the latest gadgets, and curating experiences requires time and effort. Additionally, family members may have differing opinions on what constitutes an enjoyable experience. For instance, while a weekend spent lounging at home sounds idyllic to you, it may not excite your children the same way.
While experiences tend to create lasting memories, it’s undeniable that seeing a child’s face light up upon unwrapping a coveted new gadget brings joy. I have two wish lists from my children, and among the eighteen items, only one is something intangible: my daughter wishes for “her own room.”
However, I suspect these material desires stem from societal influences rather than genuine needs. I can easily recall the activities that would bring my children joy. My youngest son dreams of a family Monopoly night, while my daughter longs for a dedicated crafting session with me. My oldest son would trade fancy headphones for tickets to a Bruins game, and my younger daughter hopes for an uninterrupted day in the kitchen. These wishes present opportunities for gifts that can also come with a tangible aspect, such as tickets or supplies.
To ensure that these experiences aren’t forgotten, consider scheduling them in advance and providing countdowns to heighten anticipation. This way, you can avoid the disappointment of unfulfilled plans.
It’s important to remember that while trendy toys have their place, many adults acknowledge that their children would engage more with a variety of toys if parents participated too. Ultimately, we all seek connection; even when giving socks or humorous T-shirts, the spirit of togetherness is what we aim for.
If you’d like to focus on experiences over material gifts this year, consider these ideas:
- Plan a Family Outing: Whether it’s a Broadway show, a local sports event, or a simple night at a hotel with a pool, creating shared memories can be a delightful gift. Consider packaging a movie gift card with details of a planned outing.
- Take a Class Together: Find a skill or hobby you can explore together, such as cooking or crafting. This could also be a bonding experience for your child and a grandparent or relative.
- Try a DIY Kit: Utilize the winter break for a fun project at home—think robotics, crafting, or culinary adventures. Just ensure that an adult is available to guide the activities.
- Subscribe to Kits: Monthly subscription boxes like Tinker Crate or cooking kits can provide ongoing fun and learning for your child while fostering shared experiences.
- Engage in Gaming: Board games or family-friendly digital games can create memorable moments. Even simple games can lead to laughter and bonding.
- Make a Plan Together: Organize a family activity, such as making gingerbread houses or participating in the Icelandic tradition of Jolabokaflod, where books are exchanged and read together on Christmas Eve.
Ultimately, this holiday season, let’s prioritize connection over consumerism. By shifting our focus to shared experiences, we may find that the memories we create together will be the ones that resonate most in the future.
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Summary
In summary, while children often desire material gifts, focusing on creating shared experiences can lead to more lasting happiness. By planning outings, taking classes, or engaging in joint activities, families can foster connections and create memories that outlast any toy.