In September, I faced one of the most terrifying moments of my life when I thought my 2-year-old daughter was about to drown. The frantic scream from my husband, Mark, still echoes in my mind as we discovered our daughter, Lily, floating facedown in a hot tub. The horrifying sight of her bluish, seemingly lifeless body being pulled from the water is a memory I’m striving to overcome. Thankfully, this harrowing experience has a positive conclusion, allowing me to share what happened without excessive emotion, hoping it serves as a valuable warning for others.
Our family had been enjoying a joyful Labor Day weekend at my in-laws’ new Austin home, where we spent most of our time in their inviting pool. On that fateful Sunday, after a delightful lunch downtown, we returned home to swim for a couple of hours before grilling steaks and preparing for our journey back on Monday.
Around 5 p.m., Lily declared she was finished swimming. She attempted to remove her floaty but needed assistance from a nearby family member. I thought it was time for her to dry off and prepare for dinner, so I allowed the floaty to be taken off. That decision was my mistake.
With Mark and my father-in-law out of the pool, my mother-in-law and I were about to join them, engaged in casual conversation with the men nearby. Unbeknownst to us, Lily quietly climbed onto the edge of the hot tub and slipped beneath the water. It happened in an instant and in complete silence. We’ve often discussed how she could have slipped past four adults who were just feet away, but the reality is that it can happen faster than anyone anticipates.
Despite my attempts to research drowning prevention over the summer, I never thought it would happen to us. Just two days prior, Mark and I had discussed safety measures and our worries. We agreed Lily would keep her floaty on, the in-laws had installed an extra lock on the door, and we would maintain constant vigilance over her. We truly believed we were prepared.
When Mark pulled Lily from the water, he immediately placed her on a patch of grass and began performing CPR. He administered chest compressions and mouth-to-mouth, but Lily remained unresponsive. I felt detached from reality, overwhelmed by panic as my brother-in-law tried to restrain me while I desperately wanted to hold her. It was agonizing.
Finally, after what felt like an eternity, Lily coughed up blood and water, which initially frightened us, but then we realized she was fighting to breathe. That moment was the most uplifting of my life. Mark handed her to me, and while I held her tightly, he called 911. The paramedics arrived, and I pleaded for reassurance about her condition, but they only assured me she was alive and in good hands.
As we sped towards Dell Children’s Hospital in Austin, I noticed police SUVs following us, a surreal reminder of the gravity of the situation. We spent nearly four hours in the ER, recounting the incident repeatedly while Lily underwent extensive testing. I vividly recall a doctor telling Mark that he had saved her life, and in that moment, we both broke down.
We were eventually moved to a room just below the ICU, where our infant daughter, Mia, was allowed to stay with us. Although the doctors quickly informed us that Lily would likely survive without severe brain damage, I didn’t truly relax until she accepted a popsicle later that night. Lily has always loved popsicles, and seeing her desire for one was a sign of her returning to us.
Within 24 hours, we were sent home with our healthy miracle, but the experience left a profound impact on us. In hindsight, there are several key lessons I took away from this traumatic event:
- The presence of more adults can be a double-edged sword. While it’s easy to think you’re safer with more people around, in our case, it distracted us from keeping a vigilant eye on Lily. We assumed someone else was watching her.
- Floaties are not a substitute for swimming skills. Lily felt secure with her floaty but may have forgotten her limitations without it. Our next step is to enroll both her and Mia in swimming lessons to boost their confidence and safety around water.
- CPR training is invaluable. Mark’s annual CPR recertification through his military service proved crucial that day. I had not been certified in over four years, and it’s clear I need to update my skills. I’ve signed up for a CPR class that also covers essential lifesaving techniques, such as the Heimlich maneuver.
- Compassion matters. The day after we returned home, I took Lily to her dentist appointment, and I was touched to see other children play with her, unaware of her recent trauma. It reminded me to be kind to everyone, as we never know what struggles others may be facing.
- Faith can be a lifeline. In those first 24 hours, our faith buoyed us. When words escaped us, we leaned on prayer, seeking comfort in scripture and each other. This ordeal has deepened our faith, and we are grateful for the support that surrounded us.
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In summary, this experience has taught us that vigilance, preparation, and compassion are essential in parenting. Despite our best efforts, life can throw unexpected challenges our way, but we can learn from them to ensure the safety of our loved ones.