I witnessed the tumultuous events of the 2016 election and came to understand the term “internalized misogyny” all too well. It was disheartening to see American women step into polling places armed with the metaphorical matches that ignited a fire against five decades of hard-won progress. Their dismissal of Women’s Equality left many of us feeling sidelined and frustrated.
Initially, I felt anger towards this regression, but over time, that anger turned cold—a protective response that’s become second nature. Because, honestly, nothing surprises me anymore… until recently, that is. A friend reached out and shared a link that caught my attention.
“Have you seen this woman?” she asked, and I assumed it was a rhetorical question until I clicked through. Enter “The Transformed Wife,” a moniker that might as well be “A Disturbing Example of Female Self-Hatred.” It’s baffling how someone could cultivate such disdain for herself and other women, all while promoting a distorted version of domesticity.
Her current persona resembles a cartoonish 1960s housewife, complete with a turkey in one hand and an apron on—an outdated stereotype that we thought had been left behind. Surprisingly, she openly critiques women who invest in higher education and instead advocates for being “keepers at home with meek and quiet spirits.” The implications of her views are staggering.
This woman is earnest in her belief that women should submit to their husbands and reject the notion of personal ambition or autonomy. I never thought I would witness a woman misusing scripture to endorse marital coercion, but here we are.
Her Facebook page is a treasure trove of harmful misogyny, masked under a skewed brand of Christianity that I, as someone who believes in equality, find impossible to accept. Yet, she has a significant following.
You may find it hard to believe that such views resonate with anyone, but they do. Just like the most effective lies, her message of oppression is cleverly packaged in a way that seems relatable to some. While many women find fulfillment in traditional roles, there are just as many who thrive in their careers. Both choices deserve respect and celebration.
As feminists, we strive for one fundamental goal: equal opportunities for all women to pursue their happiness, irrespective of societal expectations. This includes allowing women like “The Transformed Wife” to express their opinions, even when those views are deeply troubling.
Perhaps one day, she will awaken from the confines of the patriarchal mindset she has embraced. When she finally steps outside the self-imposed restrictions, she may find that feminists were the ones who fought for her freedom—while she was focused on locking herself away, we were busy gathering the keys.
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In summary, the existence of individuals like “The Transformed Wife” illustrates the pressing need for feminism today. It’s a reminder that while we fight for equality and autonomy, some women remain entangled in a web of self-oppression. It’s a complex issue that demands our attention and action.