For many women juggling the demands of parenting, the nighttime often brings a complete depletion of energy and desire. After a long day of tending to little ones, the thought of intimacy can feel like a monumental task. Many of us might even choose a good night’s sleep over a romantic evening.
You may have explored various remedies to boost your libido, from essential oils to a calming glass of wine. Sometimes it just takes a spark of desire to shift our mindset toward intimacy. Unlike men, women often need to mentally engage before our bodies follow suit.
The exciting news? According to a study led by Sonos and neuroscientist Dr. Daniel J. Levitin, your next intimate experience could be just a few songs away.
We all have those tracks that have accompanied us through life’s ups and downs—whether it’s on a long drive, during a challenging workout, or even in the middle of a cleaning frenzy. Music has the unique ability to evoke powerful emotions. Recall the rush you feel when a song that holds personal significance plays, or how a Beyoncé anthem can make you feel unstoppable while cooking dinner.
It’s logical to think that if a playlist can elevate your spirits while you prepare meals, imagine the effects it could have in the bedroom. A survey of 30,000 people revealed that a striking 67% reported having more passionate nights when music was part of the equation. Selecting sultry songs—like LL Cool J’s “Doin’ It” for some steamy romance or John Legend for a more tender vibe—can enhance your connection with your partner.
It’s not just nostalgia at play or the thrill of dancing to Harry Styles; Levitin explains that listening to music can actually stimulate your desire. “New music activates the novelty detectors in our brains and influences dopamine levels, which is the feel-good neurotransmitter/hormone that rewards us,” he states. And let’s be real, those rewards often come in the form of delightful orgasms.
Don’t reserve your music choices solely for intimate moments. Play your favorite jams during everyday tasks to uplift your mood and foster connection. The study also found that families who enjoy music together at home spend an extra 3 hours and 13 minutes with one another each week.
So if things have been feeling a bit mundane in the bedroom, turn up the volume, play your go-to tracks, and remember LL’s advice: “Conventional methods of makin’ love kinda bore me / I wanna knock your block off, get my rocks off / Blow your socks off make sure your G spots soft.”
This article was originally published on Oct. 1, 2017.
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Summary:
Listening to music can significantly enhance mood and intimacy, particularly for women who often find themselves exhausted after caring for children. A study suggests that incorporating music into your relationship can lead to more passionate nights. The emotional power of music not only uplifts spirits but also boosts libido, making it a great addition to your romantic routines.