Car dates – yes, you read that right. My partner and I have embraced this trend, and let me tell you, it’s a delightful experience worth trying. If you’re curious about how to enjoy a car date, here’s a simple guide:
Getting Started
First, when you sense that bedtime is about to turn into chaos, reach out to your babysitter. “Hey, Taylor, are you available tonight?” If Taylor can step in, fantastic! Set a time for 5:30 PM. As the babysitter arrives, brace yourself for the potential meltdowns from the little ones (trust me, it’s a common side effect of car dates). You and your partner then make a quick dash to the vehicle, gently prying off any clingy toddlers.
Ah, that scent of freedom! Enclosed in your car, you escape the endless bedtime routine and enjoy a moment of peace. The silence is pure bliss.
Where to Go?
Next, where to head? You’re not particularly hungry since you munched on the kids’ leftovers earlier. Maybe you could run an errand? Not really. A stop at the local fruit market? Nope, you stocked up at Costco earlier. How about trying that trendy new restaurant downtown? Nah, you’d rather avoid dressing up and searching for parking.
Enjoying the Moment
So, what’s left on the agenda? Simply sit in the car and have a car date! We’ve made this a regular occurrence, and I’ve grown to love it. Sometimes we grab coffee and chat in the driveway. Other times, we’ve parked at the grocery store to finish our holiday shopping while laughing and scrolling through our phones in the dim light.
On these car dates, we can communicate freely without distractions. It’s just the two of us, sharing paper coffee cups and enjoying each other’s company. In the midst of parenting and work commitments, it often feels like we’re just ships passing in the night. Car dates allow us to reconnect, share laughs, discuss our kids’ antics, and fantasize about a getaway to Napa. It’s a beautiful way to exist together, if only for a couple of hours, reminding us of our bond before we had our little crew.
So, if you spot us parked in a grocery lot, don’t be surprised if we wave back. We won’t be getting out; we’re happily engrossed in our car date.
This article was originally published on Sep. 29, 2017.
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In summary, car dates offer a unique opportunity for couples to reconnect amidst the chaos of parenting, allowing for quality time that’s both enjoyable and free of distractions.