A bride’s recent wedding invitation has sparked widespread backlash after she suggested nursing mothers should breastfeed their babies in the bathroom. While it’s understandable for some brides to want an adults-only event, this particular request crosses the line.
The invitation, which was shared on the Facebook page Breastfeeding Mama Talk, featured a message directed at breastfeeding moms. It informed them that a designated area had been set up in the ladies’ room with chairs and blankets for their convenience. The bride’s note stated, “We are sensitive to the fact you may have to breastfeed during our event, therefore we have designated an appropriate place for you to feed your baby…” Such a request is both shocking and inappropriate.
The recipient of the invitation, who is the wife of the best man, voiced her frustration, revealing that this was not the first time she had faced criticism regarding her choice to breastfeed. She recalled previous family discussions where they insisted she should find a private place away from the festivities to feed her child. Despite offering to have a friend assist with feeding, the family remained unsupportive, leaving one to wonder why they felt entitled to dictate how a mother nourishes her baby.
In response to the invitation, many commenters on the post encouraged the mother to stand her ground. Suggestions ranged from having a friend attend as her date to breastfeeding openly, emphasizing that mothers should feel empowered to feed their babies wherever they choose. Others pointed out how the so-called “comfortable” accommodations were anything but, expressing disbelief at the notion of breastfeeding in front of a bathroom door.
Ultimately, the mother decided to leave her children in the care of friends and grandparents while she attended the wedding. Some readers suggested she could have opted for a more relaxing evening at home, away from the negativity. This situation highlights the importance of mothers feeling comfortable in their choices, especially during what is meant to be a joyful celebration.
For more insights on home insemination and parenting, check out our other blog posts, including a detailed look at the process here and resources from Make a Mom. If you’re interested in fertility options, the Johns Hopkins Fertility Center offers valuable information.
In conclusion, this incident serves as a reminder that mothers should not be shamed for how they choose to feed their children. Whether in a private area or in public, breastfeeding is a natural process that should be respected and supported.