I’m not generally a germaphobe. I subscribe to the five-second rule, don’t bathe my kids daily, and my kitchen surfaces could definitely use a thorough cleaning. I believe that a little exposure to germs (and even dirt) is beneficial for our children, and science supports this viewpoint. However, there is one significant exception: newborns.
Let’s be honest: you may not want to hear this, but it’s crucial to keep your lips, unwashed hands, and germs away from newborns. I understand the allure of babies; their round cheeks, soft hair, and fresh scent are simply delightful. This irresistible charm is nature’s way of ensuring parents can endure sleepless nights, incessant crying, and diaper disasters.
Babies are captivating and can turn anyone into a softy. Just a few moments with one can make you lose all common sense. We often slip into a sing-song voice, refer to ourselves in the third person, and share photos of their adorable little bodies with captions like #CutiePie. Yet, in our excitement, we often forget about the harmful bacteria, viruses, and infections we might be passing on.
While exposure to dirt and germs can be healthy for older kids, it doesn’t apply to newborns. Their immune systems are still developing, and they lack full vaccinations, making them more susceptible to infections. Tragically, there have been reports of infants contracting meningitis from innocent-seeming kisses or picking up herpes from someone who didn’t realize they were contagious.
You might think I’m just another overly cautious parent trying to impose unnecessary rules. I assure you, it’s not about paranoia; it’s about common sense, basic hygiene, and human decency. So please, refrain from kissing the baby. Avoid letting them suck on your fingers, and for goodness’ sake, if you’re sick, stay away! New parents and their fragile little ones do not need to deal with unwanted germs.
Of course, this isn’t a lifelong ban on affection. Once the baby receives vaccinations and their immune system strengthens, you can relax the rules a bit. Before long, you’ll find your toddler gleefully exploring the kitchen floor and discovering half-eaten lollipops hidden in the couch.
When visiting a new family, bring along some food or a cute, albeit impractical, onesie. Offer to hold the baby (after washing your hands, of course) so the new mom can take a much-needed break. Just remember to keep your germy lips and hands away from that precious little one.
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In summary, while we adore babies and may feel the urge to shower them with affection, it’s vital to prioritize their health and safety. Avoid kissing newborns and keep your hands clean to ensure they remain safe from harmful germs.