Her cheeks are flushed, and her little body shakes with sobs. My daughter has thrown herself onto the floor of the department store’s fitting room, protesting loudly. Her grandmother is ready to buy her a lovely dress, but instead, my little one is furious because she wanted three dresses. Yes, even the one she said didn’t “twirl right” and the one she outright refused to try on. Despite their supposed inferiority, she wanted them all. Instead of expressing gratitude to her Grammy, she wails and thrashes on the dirty floor.
She’s not being difficult; she’s just three.
Her sweet friend, Lily, invites her to play a game called “balance the stick.” (What even is that?) My daughter kindly declines. Lily’s cherubic face falls in disappointment. “Sophie,” I remind her gently, “remember how upset you were last week when your friends didn’t want to play Rescue Bots with you? This is how Lily feels right now. Why don’t you join her for a little while?” She looks at me, expressionless. “No, thank you!” she responds cheerfully, turning to walk away.
She’s not inconsiderate; she’s just three.
It’s time to go to the bathroom before we leave the house. My daughter adamantly refuses. “Oh, great, because Mommy really needs to go,” I fib, scrambling for the restroom. “Do you really need to go badly?” my preschooler asks, intrigued. “Are you going to have an accident?” I nod solemnly and watch her dash to the toilet.
She’s not heartless; she’s just three.
“Can I watch Rescue Bots when we get home?” my daughter asks. “Yes, you can!” I reply warmly. “Your sister has piano lessons, and you can watch one episode before we head to the store.” Suddenly, my cheerful child throws her snack on the minivan floor and arches her back in fury. “But I want to watch A LOT OF SHOWS!!!” she yells, her eyes wide.
She’s not ungrateful; she’s just three.
“It’s bath time!” I announce, filling the tub. “But I caaaan’t!” my daughter wails. “My knee hurts!”
“Would you like a Band-Aid?” I propose helpfully.
“NO! THAT WILL MAKE IT WORSE!” she screams, clearly unimpressed with my suggestions.
“Should we put some cream on it?” I ask.
If she could, she’d probably roll her eyes at me. Instead, she sighs dramatically and covers her face with her hands, clearly frustrated with my cluelessness.
She’s not overdramatic; she’s just three.
In the presence of my threenager, I rarely go more than a few minutes without encountering her dramatic side. She is perpetually upset over some perceived injustice, whether it’s my refusal to let her devour the entire box of organic fruit snacks or the fact that her nightlight isn’t perfectly aligned with her bed. It’s as if she’s in a constant state of emotional turmoil, like she just discovered that chocolate is illegal and her favorite show has been canceled. Sometimes I think about sneaking a calming agent into her yogurt tube.
But then I remember: she’s not mentally unstable. She’s just three.
In all honesty, she can be a bit of an annoyance at times. However, this phase won’t last forever.
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In summary, while navigating the challenges of parenting a three-year-old can be frustrating, it’s essential to remember that these behaviors are part of their development. With time, patience, and understanding, this stage will pass.
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