The emotional rollercoaster of the first school day can be tough for both children and parents. However, one mother’s simple yet effective idea is bringing comfort to those nervous little ones. Dubbed the “hug button,” this clever concept was shared by UK mom Emma Johnson on her Facebook page, showcasing its charm and effectiveness.
A Creative Solution for Anxiety
Emma recounts how her youngest son, four-year-old Oliver, faced his inaugural full day of school after a few half days. Noticing he was feeling a bit anxious, they brainstormed a way to help him feel connected during the day. “We decided to draw a heart on each of our hands, and if we pressed it, it would send a hug to the other,” she explains. Oliver had previously expressed that he felt sad and missed Emma during his first half day. The hug button concept proved to be a hit.
Using just a pen, Emma drew hearts on their hands and even added one on Oliver’s arm as a backup. They “charged” their hug buttons by holding hands on the way to school. When Emma picked him up, she asked if he received her hugs, to which he joyfully replied, “Yes! I pressed it for a long time, Mommy, but I didn’t cry.” How sweet is that?
Community Response
After sharing her delightful idea on a parenting Facebook group, Emma received an enthusiastic response from fellow moms. Many others began implementing the hug button with their children, finding it to be a lovely, simple method to ease the transition into school. “All you need is a pen, two hands, and lots of love,” Emma notes.
There are many ways to maintain a connection with your child while they are at school. For instance, I used to give my kids “hand kisses” to keep a little piece of me with them. Another friend has matching pins that she and her daughter wear to remind each other throughout the day. Moms are incredibly resourceful when it comes to supporting their children during these challenging moments.
Finding Joy in New Beginnings
Emma is relieved and overjoyed that her creative solution helped Oliver face his first day of school with confidence. Now, she can focus on enjoying some well-deserved “me time”—though she admits to shedding a few tears about her youngest starting school. “Here’s to many more happy days at school while I sit at home with the dog and cry that all my babies are in school now,” she says.
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Conclusion
In summary, the hug button is a sweet and simple way for parents to comfort their children as they embark on their school journey, reinforcing the bond between them while easing anxiety.