It all began when we decided to get professional photos of our little one, Leo, at just 9 months old. I found an old college buddy, Alex, who primarily focused on journalism and later learned we were among his first clients. Initially, we were hesitant; after all, we had smartphones and countless pictures of our baby were already at our fingertips. We didn’t intend to be in the pictures—just some candid shots of Leo being himself, without any posing involved.
However, Alex offered us a surprisingly affordable rate, given our friendship, so we took the plunge. We met at a nearby park, where he captured an array of moments: Leo balanced on a tree branch, getting a diaper change, crawling around, and even wearing Dad’s sunglasses.
The results were breathtaking, and I was completely convinced of the value of professional photography.
This is why we make it a point to schedule annual photoshoots. Over the years, we’ve worked with three different photographers, all of whom I consider friends. While one prefers posed photography—hence why we don’t use her often—the other two excel in capturing candid moments as they follow my kids around, blending into the background. Those images are worth every penny spent.
Sure, I take cute posed pictures myself. I often make the kids line up against a decent backdrop on Sundays, dressing them in their best outfits, and snap a few shots. I’m frequently pulling out my iPhone, shouting, “Stand still and smile for Mama!” While I end up with adorable images of my boys posing with their Lego creations or showing off their catches from the splash pad, they simply don’t capture the essence of play like the professional shots do.
For one memorable session, my friend Laura—an artsy activist I’ve known since middle school—met us at my mom’s farm. The kids opted for shirtless fun, and Laura snapped shots of Leo in his quirky shorts climbing a gate, while little Max munched on ripe blackberries. She captured Leo with a stick, resembling a young Robin Hood, and even took a few lovely pictures of me holding my baby, showcasing angles and lighting that I could never achieve on my own. That’s the expertise you’re paying for, and it truly shows in the final images.
Our most recent photoshoot took place at a park by a creek. The kids wore cute button-downs with rolled-up sleeves and played with nets, chasing minnows and splashing water. After seeing a preview, I thought: This is how I want to remember my boys—not in stiff poses, but in joyful moments, running after fish in the vibrant spring greens. Yes, this is the essence of my children.
I understand that cost can be a concern. But if you can swing it, find a photographer who resonates with you and let them capture your kids in their favorite environment. Alternatively, consider reaching out to a local university for photography or journalism students eager to build their portfolios. You want someone who understands lighting and angles, and you may find a range of prices between emerging and established photographers.
And if you’re feeling brave, make sure to get in the frame too. Twenty years from now, your kids won’t care about how you looked—they’ll treasure the memories of you playing with them. I’ve let Alex capture moments of me pushing my kids on swings, even though I often cringe at my own appearance in photos.
Our walls are filled with these cherished images. One even made it onto our Christmas card one year. I see three beautiful shots from our more posed photographer (who has since become way too posed) and a stunning montage from Laura in our hallway. Alex’s work adorns our home, reminding us of the beauty he saw in our children. These photos give me a refreshing perspective on their growth and personality.
Investing in professional photography may seem extravagant, especially in the age of smartphones, but the memories we’ve captured are priceless. We will always be grateful for these snapshots of their childhood.
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In summary, finding a photographer who resonates with your vision can turn ordinary moments into extraordinary memories. Investing in professional photography is not just about the pictures; it’s about capturing the essence of your family and the fleeting moments of childhood.