Home schooling wasn’t always our path. My children, aged 13 and 10, spent their formative years in public schools until we made the significant decision to transition to home schooling in January this year. After extensive research, heartfelt discussions, and a few tears, my partner and I determined that this change would best suit our family’s needs. It has been one of our most rewarding yet challenging choices, and along the way, I’ve learned some important lessons.
1. Home and School Are One
Every day, I find myself questioning, “Is this how you acted in public school?” at least five times. As much as we’d like our kids to behave like they did in a classroom setting, they don’t. You’ll always be Mom, which means if they want to complain about five math problems, they will. They’ll also ask why they need to learn about quadrilaterals and take numerous snack and bathroom breaks without hesitation.
2. Trial and Error is Key
Initially, we enrolled in an online program that mimicked traditional schooling. Within two weeks, my kids were unhappy. They were “in school” from 9 AM to 5 PM, and we all dreaded it. Home schooling was meant to be an opportunity for us to take control of their education—not to confine them to a computer for hours. So, we returned the materials and explored other curriculum options. After months of trial and error, we finally discovered a blend that works for everyone. Perfection is elusive, but finding that perfect balance of learning, time, and happiness is euphoric.
3. Community is Essential
Joining a local home schooling group turned out to be crucial for my well-being and one of the best decisions we’ve made. Initially, I wasn’t worried about socialization, but after a couple of weeks of being at home non-stop, I realized how vital it was for both me and the kids. We found a wonderful group that meets weekly, offering field trips and social events. The camaraderie with fellow parents—whom I affectionately call my Misfit Moms—has been a source of support. Our kids have made friends, and we’ve found ourselves engaging in activities I would have never imagined.
4. Allowing Freedom in Learning Yields Surprises
After abandoning the rigid online program, I provided a list of subjects for my kids to choose from. The moment they had the freedom to select their topics, their enthusiasm skyrocketed. My 13-year-old, who previously only watched crime shows with me, dove into books on crime scene investigation. My 10-year-old started a YouTube channel showcasing his stop-motion Lego videos. Since letting them explore their interests, we’ve covered a wide array of subjects, from the Revolutionary War to ecosystems and nutrition. Not bad for a home schooling experience!
5. Embrace the Quirkiness
Since joining the home school community, I’ve met some truly remarkable kids. From a 15-year-old taking college classes to a preteen fervently advocating for LGBT rights, these children break the mold of what’s considered “normal.” They are innovative thinkers who pursue their passions with fervor. While unique kids exist in public schools, the home schooling environment seems to foster that creativity and independent thinking. I’m proud to say my children are among the wonderfully weird.
In this journey, we’ve encountered both smooth and challenging days, but home schooling has proven to be an enriching experience for the entire family. If you’re interested in exploring more about home insemination, consider checking out this informative article here. And for those looking for reliable resources, take a look at Cleveland Clinic’s guide on intrauterine insemination and visit Make A Mom for reputable home insemination syringe kits.
Home schooling is an adventure filled with growth, laughter, and yes, a bit of chaos. I can’t wait to see what we learn next!
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