As parents, we often find ourselves saying “no” more than we’d like—whether it’s about screen time, sleepovers, or that latest must-have toy. With countless requests coming from our children daily, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and stick to the rules. However, a shift in perspective can reveal that embracing “yes” for the little things can truly enrich our lives.
Last summer, a mom named Sarah Jennings faced a tough decision when her ten-year-old daughter, Mia, asked to dye her hair pink. Sarah initially refused, but shortly after, Mia attended a summer camp where an unfortunate incident occurred. While demonstrating with fire, an accident led to severe burns covering over 70 percent of Mia’s body. As Sarah shared on her blog, the family spent three long months in the hospital, filled with uncertainty about Mia’s recovery.
After countless surgeries and a challenging healing process, when Mia expressed her desire for pink hair again, Sarah decided to say yes. “Life is just too short to say no all of the time,” she wrote. “That experience taught me that we never know how much time we have left with our loved ones. So, let’s embrace ‘yes’ more often.”
“Mia is such a remarkable child,” Sarah reflects. “She has faced more than many adults ever will, and yet she remains the most vibrant and spirited person I know.” While Mia continues to navigate her mental health challenges, Sarah emphasizes how her daughter has shown incredible resilience.
We truly never know what the future holds. Allowing our kids to experience life, take risks, and yes, even have pink hair, can create lasting memories. It’s easy to default to “no,” but sometimes, saying “yes” opens up a world of joy.
Despite the stress that parenting can bring, Sarah encourages us to embrace more moments of connection. “Life is unpredictable, and tomorrow is not guaranteed,” she advises. “Choose your battles wisely. Enjoy your children, let them have a little fun, and remember that you don’t owe anyone an explanation for your parenting decisions as long as your child is happy and healthy.”
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In summary, embracing a more flexible approach to parenting by saying “yes” more often can create cherished memories and strengthen the bond between you and your child, allowing them to fully experience life’s adventures.