When you’re checking in at the airport and the kiosk prompts, “Will you be traveling with an infant on your lap today?” let’s hope the answer is no—for the sake of your sanity and well-being.
Note: This advice is particularly for those flying solo with a little one. If there’s any chance you can bring along a partner or friend, do it. If it’s just you, don’t fret; I’ve got your back.
If a direct flight is an option, it’s worth every extra cent. Direct flights eliminate the hassle of stroller delays (thanks to slow gate agents) and the unpredictability of connecting flights. Trust me, you won’t regret choosing a direct route.
But if a layover is unavoidable, you’ll need to decide between two choices: 1) using a baby carrier or 2) pushing a stroller. Each option has its challenges.
Choosing the carrier means your tiny travel companion will be close, even when you’re trying to find a moment of privacy. However, it allows for easier navigation through the airport without needing to seek out elevators.
On the other hand, if you opt for the stroller, be prepared for potential delays. I’ve missed connections waiting for the stroller to arrive at the jet bridge, and trust me, when you’re solo, you’re late more often than not. Plus, when you’re juggling a stroller, bathroom breaks become tricky—opt for the airport changing table rather than the cramped airplane lavatory.
Regardless of your choice, there’s a solution: you can bring your stroller through security, right to the gate, and check it at your final destination. I learned this helpful tip from a friendly gate agent after a couple of exhausting flights.
Now, it’s time to board. When the gate agent calls for families with children under five, ignore them. Resist the urge to make eye contact—who wants to sit on a plane longer than necessary? We’ll board last, thank you very much.
Just a heads up: if you plan to stow a carry-on in the overhead compartment, this could pose a problem if you board last. My suggestion? Skip the carry-on and check your luggage instead. This way, you only need to manage your little one and their snacks.
Do yourself a favor and avoid sitting in the first row. Flight attendants tend to take your diaper bag, leaving you with whatever you’re holding when that happens. You’ll never know exactly what you might need, and it’s better to be safe than sorry.
Once you’re settled, connect with a fellow passenger. A friendly smile can go a long way; this person might end up helping you out during the flight. I usually gravitate towards older women or teenagers, but somehow, I always end up next to a middle-aged man in a suit.
Once on board, don’t forget to bring sanitizing wipes. You’ll want to disinfect everything around you, as kids tend to touch every surface. Just know that in my experience, the wipes could backfire—my daughter once copied my cleaning routine and promptly popped a used napkin into her mouth. I nearly fainted until a flight attendant offered me a drink.
Bring plenty of distractions. A travel cup filled with Goldfish crackers can save the day. If you have a tablet, make sure it’s fully charged and that you’ve downloaded the airline’s app before boarding. Internet can be spotty on flights, so prepare for that possibility.
As you approach descent, you’ll likely notice your child dozing off, which is a small victory after a long flight.
Once you land, you might find yourself navigating the airport with a sleeping baby. But hold on—after hours of holding your little one, you’ll likely need a bathroom break. Just be prepared for the startling noise of the toilet flush to wake them.
If you think airplanes can get hot, airports can feel like a furnace, especially in elevator shafts. You might find yourself taking nine elevators just to reach baggage claim.
Keep in mind that this phase won’t last forever. One day, the small child you’re pushing through the airport will be the one pushing you.
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In conclusion, traveling solo with a young child may seem daunting, but with the right strategies and a bit of humor, you can make it work!