The conversation around whether parents should share their children’s lives on social media is ongoing. Personally, I embrace it. My kids are adorable, and since our family is scattered across different locations, sharing their milestones feels like a way to bridge that gap. But it got me pondering: what if the roles were reversed?
Imagine if our little ones had smartphones and took to platforms like Facebook to comment on our lives. What if they used all the trendy filters on themselves while sharing the most unflattering versions of us? I could be missing out on how I look with flawless skin and a floral crown, utterly oblivious.
Envision a reality where our kids are documenting our daily lives online while we remain unaware. There could be compilation videos showcasing our attempts to use slang that clearly shows we’re out of touch. “Mom just said ‘lit’! Mom, can you say that again? Smile for the camera, one… two… three! Lit! She’s so cute and clueless!”
They might post #InstaFails of us in an outfit we thought was stylish but clearly missed the mark. Or they could rant about our last-minute Christmas Eve gift wrapping. Did Mom really think she’d be able to wrap everything in one night?
Then there are those birthday pictures where we’re forced to wear stickers with our ages, creating an entire Facebook album titled “Mommy’s Countdown to the Golden Years.”
Snapchat stories might feature us trying to mimic dance moves from a popular music video while our kids giggle in the background. Morning bedhead photos could be sent off to national talk shows, showcasing our less-than-glamorous moments.
And let’s not forget the food pics—endless images of chicken nuggets and apple slices along with blog posts detailing our Pinterest disasters, transformed into a collage that looks like a craft store exploded.
Of course, there would be sweet moments too. Maybe they’d share a heartwarming picture of an older me sitting in a wheelchair, with the caption reflecting on how I’ve been there for them throughout the years. #ByeMomItWasReal
There may even be expressions of gratitude amidst the chaos, sharing memes about how their mother can drive them nuts with her nagging and insistence on vegetables, but ultimately, her love makes it all worthwhile.
Thinking about how it feels to be a child with a parent who shares their life on social media might lead you to think I’ll suggest you reconsider your actions. Nope. I remember being a rebellious teenager and what my friends were like, so I understand the future is likely filled with eye rolls and sass. While my kids are still sweet and innocent, I’ll continue to cherish and share the moments that bring me joy. I’ll document our adventures for family and friends to enjoy and back them all up on two hard drives and a cloud, so I can relive these days when they hit the teenage years.
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In summary, while we may fret about what our kids could post about us, we can also embrace the humor and love in our parenting journey, capturing the laughter and lessons along the way.