For as long as I can remember, I’ve been labeled a “tomboy.” As someone who identifies as a woman and prefers practicality, I’ve often felt out of sync with the traditional definitions of femininity. I don’t gravitate towards “girly” attire, and I’ve been told that dresses signify femininity while trousers do not. To many, women who choose not to wear dresses are perceived as less feminine. In my high school years, I faced judgment for sporting football jerseys instead of skirts and opting for basketball practices over manicures. To those who hold such views, I’d like to say, “That’s simply not true.”
I certainly don’t fit the stereotypical image of a “girly girl” often showcased in media. The notion of femininity is often depicted with rouged cheeks, pearls, and flowing skirts—none of which I identify with. For years, this made me question my own femininity compared to those who embraced more traditional styles. However, I eventually realized that influential figures like pop stars and politicians who have chosen to forgo dresses are no less feminine than those who wear them. This realization changed my perspective: dressing in a way that isn’t traditionally “girly” doesn’t diminish my femininity.
Empowerment Through Choice
What a woman wears should not dictate her femininity. While Shakespeare suggested that clothes define a man, I argue that the same does not apply to women. A woman has the right to wear whatever makes her feel empowered, whether that’s pants, flats, or even sweats. The idea that wearing pants makes a woman any less feminine is not only ridiculous but also deeply offensive.
Currently, I own two dresses, both worn just once for a wedding where the bride’s wishes were non-negotiable. Outside of those occasions, I haven’t donned a dress in years. Embracing a more androgynous style resonates with me, as it empowers me to feel like a strong, confident individual. My preference for a more rebellious look doesn’t negate my identity as a woman or my femininity.
The Subjectivity of Femininity
Ultimately, femininity is subjective—it’s about how a woman feels in her own skin. If she radiates confidence and embraces her identity, it doesn’t matter what she wears. What truly counts is that she dons attire that makes her feel attractive, comfortable, and powerful. So, let’s disregard anyone attempting to label us—whether as tomboys or not. Keep embracing who you are, ladies!
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Conclusion
In summary, a woman’s choice of clothing does not determine her femininity or worth. Instead, it’s about confidence and personal expression, regardless of societal labels.