As a parent dining out with kids, I strive to be mindful of waitstaff and ensure I tip generously. I fondly recall an experience from my own time as a server when a group at my table had stacked their plates and silverware for me. “We’re waiters too!” they exclaimed with smiles, and they left me a generous tip, despite their own efforts in cleaning up. Acts of kindness can truly uplift a person’s day.
However, not all experiences are pleasant, which is why a group of servers took to Reddit to share their most frustrating customer encounters. Many of these unfortunate moments involve children. I hope you don’t see yourself in any of these scenarios.
1. Leaving Chewing Gum on the Plate
I personally can’t stand the sound of gum chewing, and I definitely wouldn’t allow my kids to leave chewed gum on a restaurant plate. It’s not just kids; adults can be guilty of this as well. It’s simply disgusting.
2. Asking Servers to Discipline Their Kids
One server recounted a mother requesting, “Can you tell my kids to stop running around?” Have we reached a point where parents expect waiters to take on the role of caregivers? Another waiter shared a story about a child wandering into the kitchen, playing with bleach and rummaging through the silverware. When the waiter returned the child to the table, the parents were blissfully unaware and laughed it off.
3. Changing a Diaper at the Table
Eww! Do these parents think it’s acceptable to change a baby’s messy diaper right at their dining table? One server noted receiving an open dirty diaper instead of a tip, which is not only repulsive but also incredibly disrespectful. A friend of mine witnessed her sister-in-law changing her baby’s smelly diaper twice during a meal at a fine dining establishment. When confronted about the discomfort it caused others, she dismissed their concerns with, “She’s a baby. What do they want? If they have an issue, they can leave.”
4. Indecisive Diners
I’ve experienced this myself and actively try to avoid it: don’t tell the waiter you’re ready, then take ages deciding. It’s akin to when your child interrupts you and then takes forever to explain the urgency. Waitstaff have other customers to attend to, and it can be frustrating for them when diners hesitate.
5. Entering Just Before Closing
I completely understand the struggle of being hungry and finding a restaurant still open; however, if you walk in five minutes before closing, you’re delaying everyone’s departure. Remember, the staff has families waiting for them too.
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In summary, being a considerate diner is key to ensuring a positive experience for everyone involved. From avoiding messy habits to respecting the waitstaff’s time, small changes can go a long way.
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