As you celebrate your 4th birthday today, I want to take a moment to share some important thoughts with you. First and foremost, I want you to know how deeply proud I am of you. You are an incredibly good girl, and I truly mean that.
I recognize that I can be a bit tough on you at times (okay, maybe more than just a bit), but please believe me when I say it comes from a place of love. I tend to set a very high standard for you and sometimes forget that you are still so young. More often than not, you surprise me by meeting or even surpassing those expectations!
I know there will be times when you think I’m being unreasonable. Perhaps when you have children of your own, you’ll understand my perspective better. Ultimately, I believe we will build a relationship based on trust, respect, and a lot of love—without all the baby talk.
Your Connection with Dad
Your connection with your dad is something truly special. You both share interests like building with Legos, enjoying baseball, and diving into the world of superheroes and video games. I may not always share your enthusiasm for those things, but I see how it helps you grow into a confident young woman.
Your Remarkable Spirit
You have a remarkable spirit that shines through, especially when you’re eager to join us in our everyday adventures. You handle trips and outings with such poise, often acting like a little adult. Your appreciation for clams and your refined taste for fancy cheese and salami impress me. You dive into every experience with determination!
Your Bravery and Curiosity
I admire your bravery; you’re never shy about introducing yourself to new friends or asking questions of adults. Your natural curiosity is a beautiful quality, and I love that you embrace the unknown with an enthusiastic “yes.”
Your Love for Family
I cherish how you lovingly refer to your baby brother as “No-EEE” and your baby sister as “Me-Lee.” You share your favorite dried mango with them, and I am grateful that you’ve never wished to send them back—something I might have thought at your age!
Always remember, if you stay true to yourself, people will be drawn to your genuine spirit. I hope you never lose sight of the wonderful qualities that reside within you, overshadowed by the outside world.
Even when I may lose my temper, it’s never because I’m not proud of you. Sometimes, I can be both frustrated and proud at the same time, which can be a challenge to balance.
You will grow into an impressive woman, not just because of your achievements, but because of the goodness in your heart. I hope you find joy in whatever path you choose, just as I find joy in my work, even if it means being away from you sometimes.
I hope you don’t mind the pictures I’ve shared of you online. I’ve been careful to choose moments that I believe you’ll appreciate in the future.
I know your birthday isn’t for a few more days, but I couldn’t wait to express all of this to you.
With endless love,
Mom
P.S. I realize that I sometimes toss things away without asking. Thank you for handling it with such grace instead of throwing a tantrum! I promise I do the same with your dad sometimes, so you two can agree on that.
P.P.S. I hope by the time you read this you’ll understand that “stuff” is not a bad word when used correctly.
Additional Resources
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In summary, I want you to know how proud and excited I am for your journey ahead. Stay true to who you are, embrace your uniqueness, and know that you are deeply loved.