As a pediatrician, I’ve seen firsthand the emotional rollercoaster that new parents experience, especially when their little ones start crying. I recall visiting a friend, Emily, after she welcomed her first child. As I stepped into her room, flowers and snacks in hand, I noticed her pediatrician questioning why the baby had a pacifier. “I just couldn’t nurse him anymore,” she explained, “and he cried every time I put him down, so I gave him a pacifier, and he fell asleep.”
The doctor responded, “Actually, that’s not how it should be. He shouldn’t have this yet. Let him cry it out or nurse him.” I could see the tension in the room; Emily’s husband clenched his fists, and Emily struggled to hold back her tears. I nearly lost my composure myself. Ultimately, they decided to find a new pediatrician.
Soothing Your Baby
If you’re a parent who can’t bear to let your child cry, it’s perfectly acceptable to do whatever it takes to soothe them. If snuggling them to sleep is what helps you both, then embrace that. Babies express their needs through crying, and it’s essential to respond to them. You’ll have plenty of time to teach them communication skills as they grow.
Making Life Easier
During those challenging nighttime hours, when every parent craves a moment of peace, don’t hesitate to make things easier on yourself. Whether it’s giving them a pacifier, letting them sleep in an unconventional spot, or allowing them to crawl into bed with you while you scroll through your phone, prioritize your sanity. There’s no shame in making life simpler for both you and your baby.
Handling Public Situations
In public settings, I always recommend doing anything to keep your little one quiet. Sometimes, you can’t just leave the store when your baby starts crying, especially when you’re low on essentials like toilet paper or coffee. If handing them your phone or a snack keeps the peace, then go for it. Keeping your child occupied is not harmful; it’s about maintaining your sanity, which is vital for a harmonious household.
Finding What Works for You
For some parents, ignoring the crying may work, but if it doesn’t suit you, give the baby what they want. If you have older children, teach them to help comfort the baby, allowing you a moment to gather your thoughts. The mother’s mental well-being sets the household’s tone, and if you’re feeling overwhelmed, your family will feel it too. So, do whatever you need to keep things flowing smoothly, which often means giving your baby what they need.
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Conclusion
In summary, remember that it’s okay to give in to your baby’s needs. Whether it’s during difficult nights or while out in public, responding to their cries is a way to foster a loving and calm environment. Your well-being is just as important as theirs, and by creating a balance, you ensure a happier family overall.