There was a time when I eagerly embraced New Year’s resolutions, but now? Not so much. It feels like just another item added to my never-ending to-do list, which often leads to disappointment and a cycle of comforting myself with indulgent treats. The typical resolutions like “Drop those last 10 pounds!” or “Hit the gym three times a week!” don’t resonate with me anymore, especially when they might involve partaking in late-night binges of Cocoa Pebbles.
Over the past year, I’ve made a conscious effort to embrace my authentic self. I think this shift began after skimming through a self-help book while expecting my first child, but real change didn’t occur until I felt overwhelmed in my life right around my daughter’s first birthday.
So, I dedicated the second year of her life to living authentically. This meant letting go of guilt over trivial matters. Whenever that nagging mom guilt creeps in, I reach out to my sister, husband, or best friend for reassurance that I’m doing a good job. After all, we all need a little support now and then. And if I want to skip a family gathering, I simply explain that I’m prioritizing my authentic life choices—it’s like a grown-up version of YOLO.
Part of being true to myself is recognizing that every mom is just navigating her own journey, and who am I to pass judgment? Sure, my child can stand patiently in line for a long time, but she also has imaginary dialogues with our pets, and yes, she has been known to devour butter packets straight from the table at restaurants. And I don’t mind one bit; I even encourage it sometimes!
So no, I won’t give a fellow mom a disapproving look if her child is bare-headed in winter. I can only imagine the challenges she faced just to get their coat on. As Kermit the Frog famously said, that’s not my concern.
Realistic New Year’s Resolutions for Moms
For any moms out there seeking a realistic New Year’s resolution, I suggest embracing your true self and refraining from judging others. Seriously, let’s ditch the judgmental mindset—it’s so last decade and frankly, it never suited anyone.
To help, here are a few easy resolutions that can foster a sense of accomplishment:
- When you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through social media, take a moment to check your inbox. Instead of deleting those unwanted emails, scroll to the bottom and click “unsubscribe.” You know you’re never going to make those recipes from Kraft, so why keep them cluttering your inbox? It’s a bit like tidying up while catching up on your favorite show.
- Discard your child’s crafts while they sleep. (Remember, live your best life! No judgment here!)
- Stop making sarcastic comments about other mothers or women in general. Simple enough, right?
And there you have it. It’s genuinely that straightforward! Wishing you all a Happy New Year!
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Summary: Embracing personal authenticity while avoiding judgment of other mothers can lead to a more fulfilling parenting experience. Simple resolutions like unsubscribing from unnecessary emails, discarding unwanted items, and refraining from criticism can enhance your sense of accomplishment and well-being.