A few years ago, I attended a community event in the suburbs of Chicago focused on raising awareness about violence against women. It was part of a global movement known as V-Day, which hosts various activities and speakers every Valentine’s Day to advocate for women’s rights. During one segment, a young woman recited a passage from Eve Ensler’s The Vagina Monologues that resonated deeply with me. The opening line stated, “You cannot love a vagina if you do not love hair.”
The narrative unfolded, detailing the discomfort a woman experienced when her husband insisted she remove all her pubic hair, and how this demand ultimately led to infidelity. While I was preoccupied with my own thoughts—relieved I hadn’t brought my preteen daughter along—those words stuck with me. The essence of the monologue echoed throughout: “You have to love hair in order to love the vagina. You can’t pick and choose.”
Brazilian Waxes and Celebrity Influence
This brings me to the topic of Brazilian waxes. I first learned about Brazilian waxing from a celebrity named Sarah Reynolds. For reasons I can’t fully explain, her waxing routine caught my attention when she claimed it changed her life. Curious, I researched the procedure and concluded it was just another one of those quirky trends celebrities endorse.
Surprisingly, Brazilian waxing has gained significant popularity, and I really don’t understand the appeal. The thought of having all that hair removed is daunting—not because I fear the pain, which I surely could handle, given my experience with childbirth—but because of the end result.
Questions of Identity and Grooming
First off, why would a mature woman want her vulva to resemble that of a child? That’s the impression I get when I think of a complete hair removal. Although some choose to leave a “landing strip,” a full Brazilian gives me pause. I’m not advocating for a complete lack of grooming; a little maintenance is reasonable. But the idea of going completely hairless feels unsettling to me.
Additionally, there are practical reasons that deter me. First and foremost, I’m frugal. I can’t justify spending $50 to $100 on such a procedure when I could treat myself to a relaxing massage instead. Also, the thought of a stranger—who isn’t my doctor—being that intimate with my body is off-putting. Who would even want that job?
Moreover, I find it curious that there seems to be little discussion about men getting rid of their pubic hair. While some might do it, it’s nowhere near the trend for women. Why do women seem to carry the burden of altering their bodies so drastically?
Embracing Individual Choices
Of course, everyone has their own comfort levels. I believe there’s a significant difference between a bikini wax and a Brazilian, as well as between grooming and complete removal. If you choose to go for it, it should stem from your own desire, not societal expectations about desirability or cleanliness.
As I age, I find myself less inclined to conform to trends like this. You do what feels right for you, but I’ll hold onto my sexually mature genitalia, thank you very much. For more insights on related topics, you might find this article on intracervicalinsemination.com useful, especially when exploring personal choices.
In summary, while the ‘no bush’ trend has gained traction, it raises significant questions about societal norms and personal comfort. Ultimately, grooming choices should reflect individual preferences rather than outside pressures.