Before my twins arrived, I stumbled across a Facebook article discussing the unfair pressure placed on women to shed pregnancy weight rapidly, often spurred by celebrity culture. I remember munching on popcorn, thinking, “Forget that!” It’s absurd to expect new mothers, who are already navigating the challenges of pregnancy, sleep deprivation, and the occasional mess of baby vomit or diapers, to instantly fit back into their pre-baby clothing. We deserve recognition for our strength and resilience, regardless of our size.
Deep down, I believed the hype that I would simply bounce back after giving birth. I figured it was just part of the process, right? Fast forward to today: my boys are now 7 months old, and here I am, sitting in my room, consoling myself with affirmations while staring at a pair of jeans that are embarrassingly too large for me. Spoiler: they definitely didn’t fit and were hurled across the room in frustration.
I had taken the plunge and purchased a pair of “real” jeans, convinced that after a week of dieting and exercise, I’d be ready to wear something other than maternity clothes. I was mistaken. Now, I find myself reminiscing about the days of fewer dimples and the luxury of wearing something other than leggings, which I can pull up to my bra to hide the extra fluff. #sexyandiknowit
Among the many myths I encountered, one was particularly prevalent: “Breastfeeding will help you lose weight quickly.” Given that I’ve been breastfeeding for 7 months, one might assume I’d be slipping into my non-maternity jeans with ease, right? Wrong.
According to some sources, breastfeeding can burn 200 to 300 calories (or more) per feeding, and since I’m feeding two, that number is probably even higher. But guess what? Burning that much energy makes you incredibly hungry. And, unfortunately, I don’t have the luxury of time to prepare healthy meals. Truth be told, carbs are my comfort, especially when I’m feeling drained.
I recognize that my body has undergone a remarkable transformation, but sometimes I just wish to feel like my old self, even if only for a fleeting moment. My hair is falling out, my nails are weak, and the energy to put on makeup or even shave my legs seems like a distant memory. I’m constantly attached to a breast pump or a child, and while I’ve adjusted to the lack of sleep, adapting to a new and larger body is not something I signed up for.
So, why did I even bother with jeans? I read an article about a mother who completed a marathon while pushing her triplets and set a world record. Seriously? People actually achieve these things? If she can do that, surely I can fit into some real pants. But the reality is, I can’t. Now, I’m just exhausted—probably from my latest binge of Ben & Jerry’s The Tonight Dough and cheeseburgers.
Regardless, who needs real pants anyway?
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In summary, the journey of motherhood is filled with challenges, including body changes that can be overwhelming. While the societal pressure to fit into pre-baby clothes is unrealistic, embracing the new self is crucial. Let’s cherish the strength that comes with motherhood, one pair of leggings at a time.