Updated: November 18, 2023
Originally Published: November 13, 2023
Motherhood can be a rollercoaster ride filled with ups and downs. Some phases are particularly tough, often marked by sleepless nights, endless crying, and toddler meltdowns. While it may feel like the days stretch on forever, the months and years seem to pass by in a blur.
In these challenging times, you might find yourself yearning for balance, only to feel overwhelmed by the laundry piling up and the never-ending list of tasks. Every new day starts with good intentions:
- Tackle the laundry
- Be a cheerful mom
- Fit in a workout
- Enjoy a green smoothie
- Take a shower
- Put the dishes away
- Pay the bills
However, by evening, you may find yourself crawling into bed feeling like you’ve accomplished very little. That’s when it’s crucial to give yourself a break. If you’re facing a particularly tough season of motherhood, find a small indulgence that brings you joy. Enter the concept of adult granola.
How to Prepare Adult Granola
Prep Time: Instantly (Yay!)
Cook Time: None (Yahoo!)
Total Time: As long as you need, mama!
Servings: Just for you (and that’s important).
Ingredients:
- Your go-to peanut butter
- Chocolate chips
- Coconut flakes
- Any other delightful toppings you cherish
Tools:
- A spoon
- A plate
- A cozy nook, bathroom, or pantry, anywhere you can enjoy your moment
Instructions:
First, find a moment of peace—whether it’s during nap time, screen time, or while handing a snack to your little one. If you’re well-prepared, you probably have the ingredients stashed nearby. If not, grab your spoon and the ingredients and sneak away like a ninja.
Scoop some peanut butter, roll it in your favorite toppings, and take a moment to savor each bite. Repeat as necessary.
Now, here’s the key part: When your child inevitably finds you (and I write “when,” not “if”), they will have questions. It’s essential to respond with:
“I am enjoying adult granola.”
Frequently Asked Questions:
Feeling exhausted sitting in your chosen hiding spot? You’re in the adult granola phase, and it’s definitely not for the faint-hearted. Here’s how to handle the onslaught of questions:
“Can I have some?”
*No, sweetie. This is for adults.*
“But what’s in it?”
*Adult ingredients.*
“When can I have it?”
*When you turn 18.*
“Will you share it with me when I’m 18?”
*Absolutely! Especially when you become a parent yourself!*
“Why can’t I have it?”
*It’s the law. You must be 18 to enjoy this granola.*
Finding Peace in the Chaos
In an ideal world, you would enjoy your adult granola while managing to exercise daily. But if that’s not feasible right now, it’s perfectly okay. One day, you’ll find a rhythm that allows for both. Until then, relish the small joys of adult granola.
Moreover, this season will eventually pass, and you’ll realize that you won’t be hiding in the pantry for peace. Things will become easier, and you may even find yourself wistfully remembering your adult granola days.
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Summary:
Motherhood can be challenging, with certain seasons feeling more burdensome than others. Embracing simple pleasures like adult granola can provide much-needed self-care during these tough times. It’s essential to carve out moments for yourself, even if it means hiding away for a few minutes. Remember, the tough seasons won’t last forever, and finding joy in small things can make all the difference.