As a physician and a parent, I often find myself correcting my children for their less-than-ideal behaviors. It’s part of the parenting package, right? However, I recently had a moment of clarity that made me realize how hypocritical I can be. Many of the things I scold them for are behaviors I exhibit myself. Here are some instances that hit a little too close to home:
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Bedtime Battles
My kids are experts at extending their bedtime. I fondly remember the time when my two eldest would be tucked in by 7 p.m. and asleep shortly after. Now, my younger ones often manage to stay awake well past their designated bedtime. Ironically, I’m guilty of the same! Every night, I promise myself an early bedtime, but when 9:30 hits, I often find myself still awake, pushing through until after 11 p.m. My self-control around sleep is just as lacking as it is with desserts. -
Indulging in Treats
I frequently tell my kids that they can’t have sweets before dinner, yet I find myself sneaking chocolate chips from the pantry. I’m the ultimate rule-breaker when it comes to dessert—whether it’s before dinner, during lunch, or even at breakfast. After all, I’m an adult, and I can make my own choices. -
Misplacing Shoes
I often joke about how long it takes my kids to find their shoes, but I’ve become just as bad. Whether I kick them off at the door or forget where I left them, I’m constantly searching for my own footwear. At least I don’t stand around crying when I can’t find them, so I guess I’m slightly ahead. -
Paperwork Chaos
We all know the classic scenario: a child pulling a wrinkled form from their backpack that needs immediate attention. I can’t criticize them, though, as my paperwork is often just as messy. Forms get lost in piles or stained with lunch remnants, and I frequently forget to send them out until the last minute. -
Complaining About Chores
Hearing my kids whine about household tasks drives me up the wall. “Why do I have to clean my room?” they ask, and I respond with the age-old wisdom that life is tough. Yet, I find myself grumbling about chores just as much. “Do I really have to fold all this laundry?” I moan, proving that I’m not much better. -
Screen Time Struggles
I’m the worst when it comes to managing screen time. While I justify my computer use for work, I can’t deny that I often get sidetracked by social media and viral videos. I impose limits on my kids’ screen time while I’m glued to my devices.
As I reflect on these behaviors, I can’t help but think of that well-known anti-drug PSA from the ’80s: “I learned it by watching you.” It’s a reminder that my children will likely mirror my actions, and perhaps I should practice a little more patience and understanding.
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In summary, as parents, we often find ourselves mirroring the behaviors we correct in our children. Acknowledging our own flaws can help foster a more understanding and supportive environment for growth—both for us and our kids.