If you’ve ever met me, the phrase “soccer mom” would likely be the last thing you’d associate with me. With a background in medicine and a penchant for the nerdy side of life, many would label me as a more unconventional, health-focused mom. However, ever since my child signed up for the local youth sports program, I proudly embrace my role as a soccer mom.
Every Saturday, I gather my family to head to the community sports complex, eager to see my oldest learn the ins and outs of dribbling and shooting the ball. As I look around, there are moms engaged in a variety of activities. One mom is quietly seated, scrolling through her social media. Another is a volunteer coach, passionately directing the children’s actions, sometimes ruffling a few feathers among the crowd. And then there’s the PTA mom, happily chatting with her circle of friends.
And then there’s me.
I’m the mom enthusiastically cheering for all the kids—not just my own. The players are in kindergarten through second grade, navigating the early stages of friendships, learning to tie their shoes, and figuring out that the large net is for scoring goals, not a hideout, as a few boys pretended last week.
I’m also the mom who delights in bringing snacks for the team, even if it’s not required (and perhaps annoys some). My backpack is packed with treats, Band-Aids, water bottles, baby wipes, and sunscreen. No one asks for these extras, but I believe in being prepared.
I strive to connect with other parents, even the quieter ones, because I genuinely want to know the moms and dads of my child’s friends. It’s in my nature to be a bit curious, so why not take the chance to meet other parents?
I also won’t hesitate to speak up when I hear overzealous parents shouting at the coaches. Seriously, it’s outrageous. These coaches are volunteers, and the kids are still learning the game; there’s no need for parents to create a ruckus over minor issues. Just chill out!
And I have no qualms about addressing overly intense coaches who treat pee-wee soccer like a professional league. No one is there to witness that level of intensity—let’s keep it fun!
I’m the mom who rallies around any child who misses a goal, especially when they seem disheartened. All of these kids are learning, and I believe we should celebrate every effort. While I’m not advocating for participation trophies, I think we can all agree on the importance of cheering for every child as they grow in their skills and teamwork.
I’m also the one reminding my child (and sometimes yours) to tone it down when they start comparing speed, skills, or the coolest cleats. This is about teaching them to work together and demonstrate good sportsmanship. A little competition is fine, but we don’t need to promote unsportsmanlike behavior.
So there you have it, I’m a proud soccer mom. I love the game and the kids—yours and mine. You can find me on the sidelines, engaging with other parents, cheering for both teams, and emphasizing how sports can cultivate respect and responsibility in our children, helping them learn to believe in themselves just as much as we believe in them. If you’re interested in more parenting insights, check out this post on home insemination kits or learn more about the process through IVF Babble.
In summary, being a soccer mom is about fostering a positive and supportive environment for all kids, emphasizing teamwork and sportsmanship while also connecting with fellow parents.