As a physician, I never imagined I would become so reliant on a babysitter. With my busy schedule, family nearby, and friends always willing to lend a hand, I thought I could manage it all. However, over the past few years, our babysitter has become an indispensable part of our family routine. I can’t imagine how we would cope without her.
Despite being a stay-at-home mom with a support system in place, I often need extra hands. I work part-time from home, attend meetings, and occasionally crave a night out with my partner without the kids. Our babysitter has been with us for six years, and her impact is immeasurable. She handles my children’s squabbles with grace and assists them with homework and piano lessons. She even manages to get them to eat their veggies. Honestly, I don’t know how she does it!
I’ve kept her services somewhat under wraps. While my friends know she exists, they rarely ask for her contact information — thanks to my signature “Don’t even think about it” look whenever the topic of babysitters arises. I know firsthand how rare it is to find a competent babysitter. Many stories circulate about babysitters who leave homes in disarray or allow kids to stay up late watching shows inappropriate for their age. Trust me; I was not the best babysitter myself back in the day.
Finding a great babysitter feels like discovering an angel sent from above. We have faced challenges keeping her on board, as other parents often eye her as a potential candidate for their own children. Yet, we’ve chosen to increase her hourly rate from $12 to $20, because, let’s be honest, that’s a small price to pay for peace of mind. The time she saves me during meetings and the guidance she provides to my kids is worth every penny.
I know the day will come when she decides to move on. As a young woman with her own life ahead, the time she spends babysitting won’t last forever. But with a sprinkle of luck, a few prayers, and perhaps a little more cash in her pocket, I hope she sticks around for a while longer.
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In summary, a great babysitter is truly invaluable, making life easier for parents juggling various responsibilities. The right person can be a game changer, allowing you to focus on your work or enjoy a rare night out.