Recently, I found myself staying up late to catch the kickoff of the NFL season. My children, eager fans, often plead to join me, and I sometimes bend the rules to let them stay up until halftime, promising they’ll head to bed without any fuss. Watching football together has become a cherished tradition for our family, and I love cheering for our favorite teams—win or lose. However, as my kids grow older and express interest in playing the sport themselves, I feel a mix of excitement and concern about the potential risks involved.
Though my children aren’t currently involved in football, I know that day is looming when one of them will say, “Dad, I want to play!” Despite my apprehension, I’ll probably respond with encouragement, saying, “Go for it, buddy.” Yet, that response is often accompanied by an undercurrent of worry about the long-term effects of football injuries. The opinions on this matter are varied, even among former and current professional players. For instance, retired running back Kevin Johnson believes that children should play as long as parents recognize the inherent risks, while current stars like Marcus Allen have opted to keep their kids away from the game, citing safety concerns.
Navigating these conflicting viewpoints, combined with medical evidence surrounding the dangers of football, leaves me in a challenging position. I want to support my children’s aspirations, yet I also feel a responsibility to protect them from harm. After all, I regularly encourage them to pursue their interests and broaden their experiences. I realize that forbidding them may only fuel their desire to rebel and try it anyway.
Essential Precautions
As I contemplate this decision, I’ve outlined a few essential precautions:
- Watch “Concussion” Together
This film highlights the harsh realities of brain injuries in football. If my child isn’t moved by the story of a player’s struggles, then I have bigger concerns to address. - Delay Tackle Football Until Middle School
I see no reason for children under 10 to participate in tackle football. Flag football is a safer alternative until they reach sixth grade. - Engage in a Preseason Discussion with the Coach
While I trust that coaches are completing mandatory concussion training, I’ll want to discuss their approach to teaching proper tackling techniques and how they manage injuries during practice. - Consult the Pediatrician
During my child’s annual checkup, I plan to dedicate time to discussing concussion signs and symptoms, ensuring I’m informed about the latest medical research regarding these injuries.
Ultimately, I understand that no amount of preparation can fully eliminate the risks associated with football. These steps demonstrate to my child, their coach, teammates, and our family doctor that I’m both concerned and accountable for the choice to let my child step onto the field. When that time comes, we’ll be a united front, working together to prioritize safety.
As a parent, I strive to uphold my values, even when they conflict with my instinct to protect my children. I want my kids to explore their passions and try new things. I’ll be the enthusiastic supporter at every game, all the while hoping for a healthy outcome that may lead them to discover a different passion altogether. For more insights on parenting and choices like these, check out our other blog posts at intracervicalinsemination.com.
In summary, navigating the decision to let children play football involves a careful balance of encouragement and caution. By implementing these precautions and maintaining open communication, I hope to create a safe environment for my kids to pursue their interests while prioritizing their well-being.