As summer winds down, I find myself eagerly anticipating September. It’s that time of year where I start preparing my kids for school—stocking up on fresh supplies, including new underwear and that ever-elusive No. 2 pencil. Inside, I’m doing a little happy dance, because September symbolizes a fresh start.
The chaos of summer is behind us, and I envision a world of possibilities. I’m ready to tackle everything from decluttering my cabinets to finally organizing that mountain of family photos into albums. Maybe I’ll even reclaim my health and whip my minivan back into shape—perhaps even craft a quilt from my kids’ old t-shirts. I dream of volunteering at their school and even considering a part-time job. The optimistic version of me is ready to shine!
But let’s be real—life rarely unfolds as planned. By the time I manage to tidy the kitchen, squeeze in a jog, tackle laundry, and run errands, the school pick-up clock creeps up on me. Before I know it, it’s October, and I find myself feeling a little disheartened. My grand expectations for September seem to have evaporated.
September often feels like a New Year’s Day for parents and educators alike. It’s a moment to set new goals, yet every year I find myself burdened with unrealistic expectations. Last year, when my youngest started kindergarten, I ambitiously aimed to run a marathon, pen a book, and completely reorganize the house. Fast forward a year, and I’ve barely scratched the surface.
So, here’s a gentle reminder: it’s okay to let go of those lofty ambitions. You won’t be able to do it all—books, marathons, volunteering, and personal fulfillment are all great goals, but remember, you’re still human. Your daily responsibilities as a stay-at-home mom are already a full-time job.
As you prepare your list of September goals, consider these more manageable resolutions:
- Take a moment to breathe. You deserve it.
- Acknowledge every achievement, whether it’s laundry done, dinner prepared, homework reviewed, or kids ferried around. You’re doing great.
- Take a breath and reconnect with yourself; your essence might just be hiding next to the washing machine.
- Remember that the version of you from 1993 had no clue about the realities of life.
- Exercise patience—this phase of parenting will pass all too quickly, leaving you with plenty of time for other pursuits.
- Accept that you are enough, just as you are.
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In summary, as September rolls in, remember that it’s perfectly fine to keep your resolutions realistic and embrace the small victories along the way.