I spotted you recently, and I felt compelled to reach out—you’re doing an incredible job.
The early months of motherhood can often fade from memory, especially once your little ones transition into toddlers. I had almost forgotten, until I saw you.
I recalled the intense surge of hormones that can leave you feeling like a rollercoaster of emotions, where one minute you might be crying at a commercial for dog food. Those hormones can shift so quickly, it’s astonishing.
I remembered the exhausting nights that push you to the brink of madness, when you could swear the rhythmic sounds from your breast pump were forming words—“Just-in-Timberlake, Just-in-Timberlake, Just-in-Timberlake.” (Or maybe that was just my experience?)
I recalled the overwhelming fatigue that makes standing feel like a monumental task and the very real danger of dozing off while sipping a glass of water.
I remembered the moments you might let go of personal hygiene to ensure your baby has everything they need. You rock those sweatpants, Mama—no judgment here!
I thought about the pure bliss of a five-minute shower, the water scalding hot, serving as a small refuge to piece together your sanity.
I remembered the hopelessness of 3 a.m. when it’s just you and a crying baby, and no amount of bouncing or soothing can bring peace to either of you.
But then, I also recalled the joy when that same baby finally settles on your chest, and you think, “I can handle this.”
I remembered the self-doubt and relentless mom guilt that can consume you, making you second-guess every choice and leaving you feeling lost.
I wanted to remind you to be gentle with yourself—this is no easy journey, especially for a new mom.
You created a whole person! That little one will bring immeasurable joy, even as they spill juice on your carpet or break your favorite items. They’ll test your limits, but remember, you’ll navigate this wild ride together.
I saw you, and I remembered the struggle and the triumph.
So, hang in there; it’s truly worth it.
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Summary
This heartfelt message to new mothers reflects on the challenges and joys of early motherhood, encouraging them to embrace their journey with patience and self-compassion.