As a pediatrician, I have often emphasized to parents how vital it is for children to learn from the behaviors and words of the adults in their lives. While I wholeheartedly believe in this principle, I sometimes find it challenging to embody it myself. Balancing my demanding career, raising three energetic kids aged 6 to 8, maintaining family connections, and pursuing various writing projects can feel like a perpetual juggling act. In this hustle, I often realize that something has to shift.
With the new school year upon us, I’ve taken it upon myself to reflect and reset my parenting goals. While it may not be the New Year, I consider this an opportune moment to implement some “Parenting Resolutions.” I’m sharing these commitments not just for my benefit, but for all parents, caregivers, and educators who might find them helpful. I plan to post these resolutions on my refrigerator as a constant reminder to practice what I preach.
To my children, I promise:
- When we spend quality time together, I will refrain from using my phone or checking emails. Our moments will be free from distractions.
- Even after a demanding day at the clinic, I will take a moment to relax, welcoming you with open arms and a smile. You’ve faced a long day as well.
- Whether at the park or in our backyard, I will be actively present—whether that means joining you on the slide or swinging alongside you.
- I will make every effort not to say I’m too busy. My time is always available to you when you need it.
- Let’s plan for a family dance party at least once a week. It’s a fun and realistic goal.
- I will strive to attend your important events like plays, graduations, and parties, despite my work commitments. You are my main priority.
- If I make a mistake, I will acknowledge it, look you in the eyes, and sincerely apologize. My actions will reflect my words.
- You will hear “I love you” from me every day, along with the many reasons why.
- I will consciously appreciate every smile, laugh, and yes, even the moments of frustration, as you grow up so quickly.
- Every morning and evening, I will ensure you know just how special and cherished you are.
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In summary, as we embark on a new school year, let’s commit to being the best versions of ourselves for our children. The journey is not always easy, but our efforts to stay engaged and present are the foundation for their growth and confidence.