This past weekend, something more elusive than a full night’s sleep with a toddler happened. Seven of my closest friends and I escaped our kids and partners for a long-overdue moms’ getaway. Admittedly, “away” was just a short drive to a downtown hotel, but it still felt like a mini vacation.
Since becoming a mom 18 months ago, I’ve cultivated a supportive community of fellow mothers. These women are my lifeline when my child is testing my patience. Through the challenges of teething, tantrums, and sleep disruptions, these amazing friends have provided invaluable advice and comfort during my most trying moments.
As a stay-at-home mom, it can sometimes feel isolating, making a solid support group essential. They don’t judge my nightly glass of wine or my fondness for binge-watching reality shows. Whether I choose to let my child cry it out after a long day or feed her nothing but cheese and bananas for a week, they reassure me it’s perfectly fine. We see each other frequently, but a weekend away from our kids is a rare treat.
After months of planning, all of us managed to carve out at least one night for this getaway.
Now, you may expect this tale to resemble a scene from a wild comedy about moms. You might imagine us taking the town by storm, closing down bars, and sipping cocktails with playful names. But if that’s what you were hoping for, you might be disappointed. The weekend turned out to be everything we had hoped for, revealing unique sides to our friendships. Here’s a closer look at the different types of moms you might meet on such an adventure:
- The Overprepared Mom
This mom brings enough supplies for an extended journey. Her packing skills are legendary; she has everything from a first-aid kit to enough snacks for an army. She’s so accustomed to traveling with a child that she’s ready for any scenario. If you’re lucky enough to travel with her, you’ll be well taken care of. - The Minimalist Mom
In stark contrast, this mom arrives with just a change of clothes stuffed into her purse. She’s packed in a rush and likely forgot something essential, but no worries—her overprepared friend has three of everything. - The Forever-Mom
This mom can’t seem to turn off her maternal instincts. She conducts thorough checks of the hotel to ensure nothing is left behind, reminds everyone to take bathroom breaks, and might even cut up your food when you’re not looking. She checks in with her family frequently, often scrolling through pictures of her kids. - The Stylish Mom
Effortlessly chic, this mom shows up in jeans while everyone else is in dresses. She’s the go-to for beauty tips, and somehow manages to look fabulous with minimal effort. At the pool, she sports a trendy cover-up that others envy. - The Organizer Mom
This mom is the glue that holds the trip together. She’s planned activities, crafted games, and coordinated accommodations, ensuring everything runs smoothly. Without her, the getaway might not have happened at all. - The Lightweights Mom
This fun-loving mom is the life of the party after just one drink. She’s likely been busy with kids for so long that this trip is her first chance to unwind. Watching her relax is a highlight of the trip. - The Juggling Act Mom
This mom is the epitome of busy. Whether she’s balancing work or multiple responsibilities, she’s always in a rush. She arrives with just a small bag because that’s all the time she has to prepare. - The Sleep-Deprived Mom
While all moms are tired, this one is determined to make the most of her time away. She’ll seize every opportunity to rest, likely sleeping for hours without interruption. This trip is her chance to enjoy a meal while it’s still warm, savoring every bite without sharing.
The beauty of a mom’s getaway is the shared understanding that, despite their differences, they all know the depths of love for their children.
So how did our weekend unfold? Well, we dressed up, went out for a nice dinner, and then returned to our hotel suite. We dealt with blisters from our heels, crafted, and sipped wine late into the night. We shared laughter and stories, bonding over our little ones, who, ironically, brought us together in the first place.
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In summary, mom trips are more than just a break; they are a celebration of friendship, understanding, and shared experiences.