In my mind, I often feel like I’m still in my twenties—maybe 27 at the oldest. So, as I coaxed my teenage daughters, Emily and Sarah, to huddle for a quick photo, it struck me that they’re now closer to that youthful mindset than I am. Sure, they’re still in their teens, but it’s a reminder that, biologically, I have crossed the 40 mark.
This Person Didn’t Drink Coffee
Once upon a time, I was a non-coffee drinker, but that changed this year. The endless early mornings began taking a toll on my mood, transforming me into a version of myself that was less than pleasant. While I still have my moments of irritability, the caffeine jolt has helped me channel my frustrations more effectively—and yes, I can still throw in some well-timed sarcasm.
This Person Had a Perfectly Tidy Home
In my younger years, I prided myself on maintaining an immaculate living space. But having kids introduced me to a new normal—one where a little chaos is acceptable. My home resembles a collection of ongoing projects, with laundry baskets overflowing and mismatched socks lurking in corners. Every few months, I bribe my daughters with promises of a movie marathon in exchange for their help sorting through the mess. It’s a small victory for a few days of matching socks, before the delightful disarray returns.
This Person Wore Makeup Like an Artist
In my youth, I could spend hours perfecting my makeup look—liquid eyeliner, flawless foundation, the works. Now, with three kids, my hormones have taken on a life of their own, and I’ve learned to embrace my natural self. I’ve discovered that skipping makeup not only saves me precious time each morning but also spares me the anxiety of watching it settle into fine lines.
This Person Had More Male Friends
I used to revel in friendships with guys, enjoying the absence of drama. However, as I’ve matured, I find immense joy in the company of my female friends. Our book nights, complete with wine and heartfelt conversations, have become a cherished ritual. It’s liberating to share emotions without the worry of unintentional flirtation.
While my daughters are embarking on their journeys of self-discovery and friendship, they are also learning to navigate the complexities of relationships. They will come to understand that women can be allies rather than rivals, and that true friends can be a source of strength during tough times.
Perhaps being over 40 isn’t so daunting after all. I’ve got my coffee (most days), clean socks (occasionally), a supportive circle of women, and the occasional glass of wine to enjoy. This new chapter feels rather promising.
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Summary:
Reflecting on life after 40 reveals a shift in priorities; while I once focused on perfection and the opinions of others, I now embrace a more relaxed approach to motherhood, friendships, and self-care.