As the school year kicks off, I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude and a small apology. Thank you for everything you do. After navigating the whirlwind of summer with my little ones, I realize once again just how essential you are. Your dedication to nurturing young minds is truly commendable. You deserve every accolade, dollar, and maybe even a glass of wine for the patience you extend to our energetic children.
My Apology
Now, let me dive into my apology. Back in June, I envisioned a summer brimming with educational adventures. We would initiate a family book club, delve into math challenges, conduct exciting kitchen science experiments, and even explore another language. I was determined that my kids would return to school in September far more knowledgeable than they were in June.
Well, that plan took a nosedive. Instead of enriching our minds, we found ourselves slipping into what I like to call the “summer slip and slide.” Our days were spent soaking in the sun by the pool, rather than poring over workbooks. I regret that those educational worksheets remained untouched and that our writing journal never saw the light of day. Honestly, there were days when just preventing sibling squabbles consumed all of my energy, leaving no room for math facts or reading.
A Lack of Structure
I’m also sorry for our complete disregard for any semblance of a schedule. Popsicles in the living room, dinners in front of the TV, and bedtime routines that went out the window—our summer was a chaotic blend of fun but also a lack of structure. We indulged in sweets for breakfast and sometimes dined on pancakes for dinner. I apologize for the absence of good habits and the embrace of not-so-great ones during these months.
We spent the summer living fully in the moment—late nights, endless pool days, tree climbing, and spontaneous road trips. We were carefree, which I regret for my children’s academic progress, but I don’t regret for the joy it brought. I know you understand the importance of letting kids be kids, and perhaps my apologies are more for me than for you. In this fast-paced world, it’s easy to feel guilty about not adhering to a strict agenda.
As the School Year Begins
As I drop off my child, who may resemble a wild creature more than a student, I extend my deepest gratitude coupled with an apology. I know that the initial weeks of school will be a challenge for you, filled with overtired kids who have forgotten how to focus. Our relaxed summer lifestyle will undoubtedly complicate your already demanding job.
I’m sorry that as you adjust back into the school routine, you’ll also need to guide these exuberant students back into the academic world. I can only imagine the moments you’ll want to escape to the supply closet with a calming beverage, yet you’ll greet my child and their classmates with warmth and enthusiasm, asking about their summer escapades. And let’s be honest, the answers will likely not involve any academic achievements.
Thank You
Thank you for your unwavering dedication. You are truly a superhero in our lives. Here’s to the school year ahead and the countdown to next summer!
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In summary, as we embark on this school year, let’s acknowledge the joys and challenges of summer, and recognize the importance of balancing education with the sheer delight of childhood.