Living in a rural area has its challenges, especially when I see my urban and suburban mom friends enjoying the luxuries of city life. They have access to endless coffee shops and well-maintained sidewalks, while I’m often dreaming of a community where my kids can ride bikes freely and play sports. My days are filled with wildlife visitors like deer and the occasional bear, but surprisingly, my rural lifestyle offers some unique advantages that city moms might envy.
- Freedom to Unwind: In my rural oasis, I can lounge in the sun without worrying about nosy neighbors. Of course, I’d need to douse myself in bug spray to ward off the relentless insects. But hey, who needs tan lines, right?
- Bulk Booze Purchases: The nearest store with a decent selection of drinks is a good half-hour away. So, stocking up on beverages is practically a necessity. Hello, box wine!
- Noise Levels? No Problem: My kids can let loose with their wild antics without disturbing anyone. And I can belt out my favorite tunes while tending to my garden, all without fear of being overheard.
- Casual Drop-offs: School drop-offs are a breeze. No one bats an eye at my flannel shirts or worn-out yoga pants. Most kids here take the bus, so I often just throw on a coat over my pajamas to walk my child to the mailbox.
- Independent Play: I can relax with my coffee while my kids explore the outdoors or climb trees — and no one will call authorities on me for it. What a scandalous thought!
- Laundry Freedom: Hanging laundry outside is a norm here. Plus, I don’t have to worry about anyone judging me for airing out my unmentionables.
- Low Maintenance Curb Appeal: In rural areas, curb appeal is simply a well-placed mailbox and a few bushes. Fancy landscaping? Not necessary.
- Treasure Hunting at the Dump: Without regular trash pickup, we have a local dump that features a “second-time around” section where I often find hidden gems for my home. From mason jars to homemade furniture, it’s a DIY paradise, if only we had better internet service.
- All-Day Playdates: Playdates here can turn into full-day affairs where kids run around outside while parents relax with snacks and drinks. It’s like a mix of camping and daycare, all in one.
- Nature Collecting: Picking up critters and natural finds is part of the fun. Our porch is often a display of everything from frogs to fallen bird nests.
Despite the occasional pang of jealousy for city conveniences, my rural life is rich with unique experiences and freedoms. While I adore my homesteading lifestyle, I won’t deny that I sometimes long for the ease of urban living.
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Summary
Living in a rural setting has its drawbacks, but the freedoms and unique experiences available to rural moms are plentiful. From relaxed clothing norms to the ability to let kids play freely outside, there are many perks that come with country living, even if the conveniences of urban life are sometimes missed.