Recently, while tidying up, I stumbled upon an old birth plan that brought back a mix of nostalgia and embarrassment. It was an extensive list filled with my detailed preferences, including everything from a serene environment to specifics about pain management. As I skimmed through it, I found myself imagining an alternative birth plan that felt more genuine and less formal. Here’s what I wish I had composed instead:
Wow! I’m about to welcome a new life into the world! Yes, I’m in labor, and I’ve put together a few key points to share with you all.
- Let’s be clear: I have zero experience with pooping under pressure. Seriously, I’m not a fan. So telling me to push like I’m on the toilet won’t help. When it happens, it’s quick, and I’d prefer to keep it that way.
- If an accident occurs on the delivery table, please keep it under wraps. Distraction techniques for my partner would be appreciated—let’s maintain some dignity here!
- I can get loud during labor. I’ve packed earplugs for the nursing staff, and if necessary, I’ll also gladly share some pain relief options.
- The mirror is off-limits unless it’s to check for something in my teeth. I’d rather not witness the reality of childbirth; I’ll leave that to my imagination.
- As for needles in my spine, I’d rather skip that. I’d prefer laughing gas instead—let’s keep it light-hearted, right?
- Just a heads up, I’m not the best at making decisions, so I might be indecisive about ice chips vs. water or whether to walk, squat, or use an exercise ball.
- I’m determined to breastfeed my baby. I’ve done my homework, but guidance and encouragement would be fantastic. Feel free to get creative with cheers; I’ve brought pom-poms!
- Please no pacifiers for my baby. I’m thinking long-term here—who really wants to deal with weaning a child off a soother? Not my cup of tea.
- I’d like to place a bulk order for mesh underwear. I hear they are trendy and essential for postpartum recovery.
- Lastly, I’d like to schedule my husband’s vasectomy shortly after delivery. Let’s get that taken care of while we’re at it—he can have the laughing gas, though!
Congratulations on making it through my birth plan! Your patience speaks volumes.
Now, for the most vital part of this plan: Your role as caregivers is invaluable. You encounter countless birth plans, each unique, and your response to our needs is crucial. Your support means everything to my family and me, especially to my husband as he stands by my side. Thank you for your dedication and kindness during this special moment in our lives. To show my appreciation, here’s a coffee card for you to share among the team. Today’s caffeine is on me!
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In summary, crafting a birth plan can be a humorous and enlightening process, but ultimately, the experience of welcoming a child is about the support and care from those around you.