I’m the mom on social media that seems to attract a fair share of criticism. I admit it—I tend to overshare, and that often puts me in the spotlight for the wrong reasons. Here’s a glimpse into my life that might help you understand why I do what I do.
I’m the mom who supports other breastfeeding mothers seeking guidance. Just so you know, I’m not one to shame anyone for their feeding choices. My son was exclusively on formula for his first year because breastfeeding didn’t work for us. On the flip side, my daughter has taken to breastfeeding like a pro, though it hasn’t been without its challenges, including bouts with mastitis. The reality is, my situation has compelled me to help other moms who might be struggling, as I know firsthand how tough it can be.
When it comes to diapering, I have both my kids in cloth diapers. Why? Let’s face it: disposable diapers can be expensive, and I’m not about to let anyone else foot the bill for my parenting choices. As for co-sleeping, I didn’t plan on it, but when you have a newborn who sleeps better next to you, you adapt for your sanity. We all sleep soundly, and that’s what matters most.
I grow my own vegetables because it’s cost-effective and convenient. Running outside to grab a fresh tomato beats hitting the grocery store any day. Plus, I can preserve what I grow for those long winter months. I understand that not everyone has the luxury of a garden, but it’s a choice that works for my family.
I’m also a fan of babywearing, utilizing a high-quality ergonomic carrier. It’s not just about style; it’s about comfort and practicality when managing two little ones. My grocery cart often reflects my commitment to health, packed with organic produce and wholesome snacks. I aim to prevent the illnesses that have plagued my family, so I make choices accordingly. But yes, you’ll also find the occasional frozen pizza or cookies in there because, let’s be real, life happens.
In my birthing experiences, I’ve had both an epidural-assisted delivery and a rapid natural labor. Each was a unique journey, and I’m proud of both. I share these stories not to boast but to reflect on the spectrum of motherhood. I understand that everyone’s journey is different, and that’s okay.
As for my body post-pregnancy, I’m fortunate to bounce back quickly without stretch marks. However, it’s essential to remember that every body is different, and I respect that. I’m passionate about fitness and health, primarily due to a family history of disease. This journey has helped me combat postpartum depression, and I’m vocal about my experiences in hopes of inspiring other mothers.
Lastly, I openly express gratitude for my blessings. I share my thankfulness for my children, my health, and the little things in life. It’s not about showing off; it’s about recognizing the good amidst the challenges of motherhood. If you’re bothered by my hashtags and posts, I encourage you to reflect on your parenting choices and remember that we’re all just trying to do our best.
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In summary, while I may be the mom everyone loves to critique, I’m simply navigating the challenges of parenthood in my own way. So let’s embrace our differences and support one another instead of casting judgment. After all, we’re all in this together.