During a night out with my partner, an unexpected event unfolded: he suddenly got a bloody nose while driving. His expression shifted from calm to frantic as he exclaimed, “Oh no, my nose is bleeding!” He quickly pulled into a parking lot, requesting that I dash inside to grab some toilet paper while he reclined in his seat, lights off to avoid drawing attention.
“Really? We’re parked so far from the entrance, and it’s pitch black! Can’t we park closer?” I questioned.
“No way, I don’t want anyone to see me like this. Hurry up!” he insisted, clearly in distress.
Rolling my eyes, I muttered, “Try dealing with monthly bleeding, buddy,” as I hopped out of the car. PMS was not the ideal backdrop for his crisis.
Do I experience intense PMS? Absolutely—just ask my family. Here’s what they might say:
Sharing Isn’t Caring
As a mom, I usually embrace sharing, especially when it comes to food. However, my children have learned that during PMS, I turn into a food hoarder. I’ll devour snacks, sneaking candy from them and munching on chips while waiting in line at the store. Sure, it embarrasses them, but I remind them of the times they threw tantrums in public—they can handle a little chip munching.
Tears on Tap
Emotions run high during this time. A sentimental advertisement? Cue the tears. My kids decide to share their last cookie? I’m a puddle. Even a simple gesture like my partner doing the laundry can trigger an emotional meltdown. Nostalgic songs from the ’90s? Forget it. We go through tissues like it’s nobody’s business, and I’ve stashed away waterproof mascara for these moments.
Everyone’s the Enemy
During PMS, it feels like everyone is out to annoy me. A sideways glance? I’m ready to retaliate. Shopping during this time is a disaster—if clothes don’t fit, I’m ready for a showdown. Loud chewing? Heaven help you. And if that irritating show, Caillou, comes on? Let’s just say it doesn’t end well.
Apologies on Repeat
While I believe we shouldn’t feel compelled to apologize excessively, I recognize that during this week, I can be an absolute nightmare. I often find myself saying sorry to my family for my irritable behavior, hoping it makes up for my chip hoarding and the times I’ve flipped them off. But there’s one thing I won’t apologize for: my disdain for Caillou.
I believe we deserve the right to our moods, our food obsessions, and our tears. After all, we’re the ones experiencing this cycle every month, and it’s not pleasant. So, while I enjoy some ice cream, why not rub my feet?
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In summary, navigating the emotional landscape of PMS is no small feat. It’s a time filled with challenges, from food cravings to tears and heightened irritability. Recognizing this can help families understand and support each other better during these times.