Throughout my journey in parenting, I’ve come to realize that children are always observing us. As adults, it’s crucial that we avoid behavior that cultivates negativity in the world. If we continue to act poorly, we risk raising a new generation that mirrors those behaviors. We need to set a better example; many are weary of self-entitled individuals.
Consider a scenario where your kids have played with sugar packets and opened jelly containers at a restaurant, leaving a mess behind. If you choose to leave without cleaning up or leaving a decent tip, you’re not just being inconsiderate—you’re setting a poor example for your children. Think about the effort it takes to clean up jelly, ketchup, or the remnants of a meal from the floor. Would you want to be responsible for that?
Similarly, if you have a problem with someone breastfeeding in public or feeding their child a bottle, and you feel the need to voice your opinion, you are being inconsiderate. It’s unlikely that a mother will change her feeding choices based on your judgment. Instead, keep your thoughts to yourself.
When children misbehave, whether they’re hitting or lying, it’s our responsibility as parents to address these behaviors. Teach them what’s socially acceptable, because if we don’t, the world will find ways to correct them—and it might not be gentle.
If you find yourself in a public space with a crying child, especially in a kid-friendly area, instead of complaining to the manager, be the adult and step outside. If your child is causing a disruption—whether in a church or during a moment of silence—take them out. There’s no reason to let one child spoil the experience for everyone else.
At school functions, when you’re trying to capture a moment of your child performing, it’s okay to stand for a quick picture. However, it’s downright annoying when someone stands up and records the entire event as if they are part of the production team. Be considerate of others around you.
During kids’ sports events, if you’re yelling negative comments from the sidelines and you’re not a coach or parent, it’s time to rethink your approach. Kids are not going to perform better because of an overly zealous adult. Chill out—this isn’t the Olympics.
We’ve all dealt with enough rude behavior in our lives. Let’s work on reducing the number of negative influences in our world. Children are watching us, and they will replicate our actions. A little kindness, understanding, and self-restraint can go a long way. The next time you feel tempted to act inappropriately, remember that your behavior shapes the future generation.
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Summary:
Children are constantly watching and learning from adult behavior. It’s essential for parents to model kindness, consideration, and responsible actions. By nurturing these values, we can foster a more compassionate future generation.