“I want to grow up and be just like you, Mommy.”
These heartfelt words are likely the dream of every mother, a moment that makes the challenges of parenting feel worthwhile. However, the truth is, while it warms my heart, it can also feel overwhelming. As a mom to four little ones, I find myself under constant scrutiny, their tiny eyes observing my every move.
These inquisitive gazes see me navigate life with both grace and occasionally, frustration. They witness my proudest moments, like when I’ve bandaged scraped knees after a fall or encouraged them to get back on their bikes. In those fleeting instances, I am their superhero. Yet, they also see me at my most vulnerable, when I’ve lost my patience or felt utterly defeated.
Each day, they look at me with admiration, proud to call me “Mommy.” But that admiration is sometimes tinged with exasperation when I can’t fulfill all their wishes. They’ve seen me stumble and even falter, but they’ve also been there when I’ve pushed through challenges and celebrated victories. My hope is that they recognize the size of my dreams and the strength of my faith.
From the moment my first child was placed in my arms, I became their role model and their unwavering support system. So, when my daughter declared, “I want to be like you when I grow up,” I knelt down, looked her in the eyes, kissed her nose, and with tears of joy, replied, “Sweetheart, I want you to be your own amazing self. Just… stay… you.”
Resources for the Journey
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Conclusion
In summary, while the journey of motherhood is filled with ups and downs, it’s crucial to embrace our true selves and encourage our children to do the same. We may not be perfect, but our authenticity can inspire the next generation.