As a young girl, I found joy in exploring my mother’s wardrobe, experimenting with her vibrant clothes, shoes, and makeup. Growing up in the colorful ’80s, I was captivated by her silky, sparkly outfits, especially those striking red patent leather heels! I would often sift through my Young Miss magazine, clipping out my favorite fashion images to adorn my bedroom walls.
In 1985, after saving my allowance for several months, I proudly purchased a pair of pink Converse sneakers—my all-time favorite. I had hair bows and scrunchies in a rainbow of colors, and by age five, I was eager to don pantyhose and blue eyeshadow, much to my mother’s amusement. While she didn’t allow the makeup, she embraced my passion for all things girly and encouraged me to express myself.
Fast forward to today, and I’m thrilled to have a daughter of my own, who mirrors my younger self in many ways. She relishes our shopping trips and often helps me select outfits. At times, she directs me on how to pose for photos, capturing our moments together on my phone. This bonding experience is not just enjoyable; it also allows me to witness her true self. Although some may view fashion as trivial, my daughter’s enthusiasm for it is genuine, and I feel fortunate that we share this interest. I believe it will help strengthen our connection as she navigates the challenging teenage years ahead.
My daughter is undeniably a “girly girl.” She loves dressing up, dancing, and has aspirations of becoming a fashion designer, a basketball player, and a veterinarian. I wholeheartedly support her interests—not merely because she resembles me, but because this is her authentic self. From an early age, she gravitated toward Barbies, so I bought her some, but I also provided her with a basketball hoop and toy cars. She enjoys them all, yet her heart lies with her feminine treasures.
If my daughter had shown an inclination toward being a tomboy, I would have celebrated that too. Should she choose to spend her time reading at home, I would support her in that as well. My goal is for my children to embrace their uniqueness and never feel ashamed of who they are. I want to nurture their strengths and passions, helping them to flourish in their own right.
As they grow and evolve, I will be there to expose them to new experiences while always fostering their true passions, the activities that ignite their spirits. I never want them to think their interests are inadequate or unworthy of my support; they only need to be meaningful to them.
I will always champion my daughter’s identity, regardless of how it manifests. I want her to know that her love for fashion and beauty does not diminish her strength or intelligence. Empowerment comes from understanding that self-worth is not dictated by appearance.
Moreover, I plan to use her enthusiasm for fashion to impart essential life lessons—like the importance of inner beauty. It’s not about the clothes we wear or the shoes on our feet, but how we feel about ourselves that truly matters. Though, I must admit, a fabulous pair of shoes certainly doesn’t hurt!
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In summary, I take pride in encouraging my daughter’s girly interests, viewing them as an integral part of her self-expression. I aspire for my children to embrace who they are wholeheartedly, supporting their individual journeys and passions.