Dear Mom,
I saw you at the pool with your son, who looked to be around 11 or 12 years old. It was clear he was in need of your support, as most boys his age typically shy away from holding hands with their mothers in public.
You were vigilant, scanning the hotel pool for potential sensory triggers and determining the best spot for your family—close to the exit and the water. I noticed how you guided your son into the water, encouraging him to dip his feet in while he covered his ears. His eyes squinted tight, but with time, he began to relax, even if his hands remained over his head. I admired how you, your husband, and your daughter created a protective bubble around him, all while wearing smiles. Yet, I could see your watchful gaze, always alert.
I wanted to connect, to send a fist bump your way or offer a high-five, but I too had my child to supervise. Plus, I never quite know how to approach another family navigating autism. “Do you come here often?” doesn’t exactly flow. Instead, I hoped you noticed my genuine smile, a simple gesture of acknowledgment rather than pity.
The next morning at breakfast, I spotted you again. You were starting your day, just as we all do. I greeted you with a smile, overhearing your son’s anxious voice asking, “What time is it?” Your husband, with a touch of weariness, replied, “It’s vacation. It doesn’t matter what time it is.” You sighed, knowing how much time can mean, yet also understanding the need for harmony in the moment.
I trust your vacation was enjoyable, even if it wasn’t what others might picture as ideal. I wish I could have told you how comforting it was to see another family like ours. Just seeing you made me feel less isolated among the “typical” families. I hope our paths cross again, perhaps sharing a laugh over a joke only we could get.
In moments like these, it’s important to find others who understand our journeys. For more insights on similar experiences, check out this post on intracervicalinsemination.com. And if you’re looking for resources on pregnancy, the CDC is an excellent place to start.
In summary, I saw you, and I want you to know that you’re not alone. We are all navigating our unique paths, and finding connection can make the journey a little smoother.