Navigating motherhood in today’s social media climate is far from easy. While many of us strive for cute and clever posts, the reality can often feel more stressful and, let’s be honest, a tad contrived. To bring a little authenticity to the forefront, I’m ready to share some truths that lie beneath my carefully curated angles and filters. Here are 10 things about me that my followers might not know:
- That stylish black and white rug from IKEA that I showcase in many of my posts? It’s a total mess. Think spills from baby food, juice, and even the occasional mishap involving chocolate. You name it, and it’s probably there. I do my best to hide it with clever camera angles and a brightening filter, but don’t be fooled—my rugs are far from pristine.
- The candid shots of my kids? Yeah, those are usually the result of numerous attempts. I might have snapped over a hundred photos from all sorts of angles before landing on the perfect one. And I definitely enhance them using my favorite editing app for that extra flair.
- If you look closely at how many photos I’m in, you’ll see that’s probably the same number of times I’ve actually dried my hair or worn real clothes in the last couple of years. Most days, I’m rocking black workout clothes, affectionately dubbed “my strange sweatpants” by my partner. When I finally do get dressed up, you can bet I’ll share a picture to prove I can still clean up well.
- I live in a cozy duplex, not some sprawling mansion. Sure, I have a few cute bags and shoes, but I’m right here sharing a wall with my neighbors and dealing with vinyl siding. So, if you thought I was living the high life, think again!
- I know not everyone is keen on seeing endless pictures of my kids, but I have family who adores them. Sending personal texts with photos would be a logistical nightmare, and honestly, my witty hashtags just don’t have the same punch via text.
- My oldest son’s eyes may look exceptionally blue in photos, but trust me, I can’t resist a little editing magic to make them pop. Though they are blue, I might just be enhancing them a bit more than you realize.
- Crafting the perfect hashtag is no easy feat. I’ll admit it can be a struggle.
- The whole “likes” game is exhausting. It takes me back to middle school insecurities: “Why didn’t she like my post?” It’s a strange social dynamic that leaves even the most mature of us feeling like we’re back in junior high.
- Most days, I feel like I’m not cutting it as a mom. While I showcase fun outings and adorable playdates, I don’t post enough of the real moments—like my toddler glued to a screen or my constant reminders to my little one about what not to touch. What you see is just a fraction of my chaotic day-to-day life.
- I sometimes wish I could break free from the social media grind, but every time I capture a great moment, I find myself sucked back in. I often contemplate ditching my phone and the pressure to overshare, but then I remember how much I enjoy those perfectly timed shots that deserve a filter or two.
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In summary, while social media often portrays a filtered version of reality, my life as a mom is filled with both delightful moments and the everyday messiness that comes with it.