As a doctor and a parent, I often find myself questioning whether I measure up—whether I’m a good enough mom, partner, or physician. Every day brings its own challenges: three little ones under five, a perpetual mountain of laundry, an overflowing email inbox, and a kitchen that often resembles more of a takeout hub than a family dining space. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed and doubt my capabilities.
Yet, when I look at my children—their joyful laughter, their innocent smiles—I am reminded that perhaps I am truly enough.
My Eldest
Take my eldest, for instance. I sometimes feel self-conscious about my appearance; my wardrobe is outdated, and my hair has long since passed the point of needing a trim. But watching her twirl in my clothes, exclaiming, “Look, Mommy, I’m pretty like you!” fills me with a warmth that surpasses any insecurity. To her, I am beautiful enough.
My Middle Child
Then there’s my middle child, who brings a whirlwind of energy into our home. I often worry I’ve lost my adventurous side. Yet, during a visit to her preschool, the pride in her eyes when she introduced me to her classmates reminded me that I am still interesting enough in her eyes.
My Youngest
And my youngest? Sometimes I feel I’m not giving her the individual attention she deserves, with hand-me-downs being the norm. But when I slip on one of those well-loved outfits and she giggles at my tickles, it reinforces the idea that, to her, our family is just right—it is enough.
As a Physician
As a physician, I sometimes wish I had all the answers, especially when it comes to parenting techniques. Books suggest rigid structures, but amidst the chaos of tantrums and the laughter of my children, I find that I truly understand their needs. To them, I am guidance enough.
The days may not be picture-perfect—there are messes, stress, and plenty of Cheerios for dinner—but maybe that’s how life is meant to be. I observe my kids swinging their legs and giggling over those Cheerios, and it dawns on me: to my children, I am enough. And to you, dear reader, remember that you are enough too.
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In summary, our journeys through parenting are filled with ups and downs, but the love we cultivate with our children is what truly matters. We are enough just as we are.